True Lovers World

Most of my male readers usually complain that they don't know how to chat with a lady on the first date. Please, bear in mind that if a lady doesn't love or appreciate you, you may never get it right while chatting with her. I hope you understand this basic true love advice because it is also useful in a serious relationship. (read, lack of communication in relationship) Several men have also complained that most ladies are usually using single words to reply their conversation such as ‘yes’ ‘no’ ‘kk’ ‘thanks’ ‘fine’ ‘ok’ etc and you know what this method means? It is one of the most annoying methods employed by ladies these days to get guys frustrated and quit the conversation. Some other ladies also use this annoying conversational method when they are bored of the date conversation! Believe me, it is very annoying. Several guys have gone on the first date  with a lady and at the end of the date, the lady experienced lots of boring moments just because the guy barely know how to engage the lady into talking. It is a bad thing that some guys can't capitalize on the fact that ladies love talking and engage them into beautiful conversations that the lady indirectly begs for you to come back. 

If you are among these types of guys, these easy steps will help you cope and chat effectively with any type of lady at the first date:

Make sure you ask her questions that will never demand a single word reply: with this method, you have the chance of getting her full discussion because she may not be able to answer you with single words or short sentences in reply. This means that you have to ask her such question as these; tell me about your family who is your role model and why?’ describe your best moments and worst moments tell me things you find difficult doing tell me things you just don't like doing but you end up doing them and why?’ etc. stuffs like that can keep her engaged and will definitely make her very happy. Before you know what is happening, she is already into the conversation. Please, bear in mind that some ladies are quite difficult to be engaged in conversations, especially when they just don't feel like chatting with you. In this case, just ask her plain: ‘is it that you don't want to chat with me dear?’

Allow her to also talk more: most guys usually command the order of the conversation during their first date in the wrong manner. All you have to do to be the commander of the conversation is try to allow her to talk even more than you!! The truth is that ladies love talking and allow them to talk while you do most of the listening. They love it that way. Please, don't get it twisted, I didn't say you shouldn't talk too, all I'm saying is that you listen more than you talk.

Don't be too funny and don't be too serious: you have to balance everything. Ladies are somehow complicated. No matter how serious the conversation tends to look, please, do not be too serious; occasionally add humor into it. Also, no matter how usuriousness the conversation may be, please, do not be over funny, try to be a little bit serious. She will respect you for that.

Make the date as clear as possible: there is no need trying to impress the lady or surprise her during the first date. If you wish for the date to be a night date, please, inform her first and seek for her opinion, if it is going to be only a soft drinks that will be taking at the date, also tell her at the onset, if you wish you both eat at the date, you have to inform her too. Now, this is important in the case that it will help reduce the expectations from the lady. May be, you don't have much money to buy her lunch, all you have to do is tell her that you want to take her out for a drink.

I hope these easy steps will guide you in your first date and help improve your chat life with the opposite gender. This post is still part of my true love relationship advice, please; do share my posts with your friends online right away.

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