True Lovers World

This is a true life story and whatever lesson you derive here is for your best interest. Religion and love are two human most cherished ideas and over the long periods of human existence, we have heard and seen these two ideas come to a cross road and battle each other in one particular time or the other! Love has so many definitions and religion has so many perceptions and understandings (Read up: what is true love). Love tends to go towards satisfying humans’ fleshy and emotional needs while religion tends to satisfy humans’ spiritual needs. This is one of the reasons the two ideas have met serious battle in many scenarios.

Little description of the two lovers

About the guy
About the lady

Their Religious differences

What led to their break up

Love Song Lyrics

AS LONG AS YOU LOVE ME (Backstreet Boys)

MY HEART WILL GO ON (Celine Dion)

Love song lyrics of the day. My heart will go by Celine Dion.

As a pretty girl, I was receiving lots of attentions from guys and I didn't find it difficult saying yes to one of them since all I wanted was satisfaction.

Again, I started dating someone else. I was just lucky because my lifestyle wasn't really killing my studies. I was just an average student. When this particular guy came into my life, I expected too much of fun from him but I was disappointed! He was just an average guy when it comes to sexual performance and that was not funny at all.

I usually complain bitterly almost each time we had sex and he would promise to improve the next time. He wasn't adventurous in bed like my other boyfriend. After some minutes we started sex, he gets tired and falls asleep!

My other boyfriend didn't know I was cheating on him so, we continued seeing each other once a month but each time we meet, we usually have sex.

Suddenly, my boyfriend who was doing his NYSC stopped calling, stopped coming to visit and if I suggest to visit him, he turns it down. It became clearer that he was dumbing me for good but I just didn't know why. May be he felt I was something else or he felt I was really cheating on him.

So, I gave him the room to break up and that was how we ended it. I wasn't really enjoying the current relationship because my boyfriend was a very weak type of guy. So, I started jumping from one bed to another looking for sexual satisfaction.

I was lost into the act. In fact, I couldn't control myself! To cut the long story shot, I continued jumping until I jumped to my current husband.

He didn't know I was sex freak. There was no way you could know because I was just normal like other girls. I wasn't like this type of girls who dressed like prostitutes. I was always looking descent but I loved wild sexual life.

Even when my current husband was courting me, I was still cheating on him occasionally with some of my very close male friends during my NYSC. He didn't know at all.

I knew he wanted to marry me so, I tried hiding myself because I had to get married. Though I used to disturb him sometimes but he was very matured enough to control himself. He used to tell me that he wanted to start sleeping with me on the night of our wedding so I bowed because I wanted to get married.

Towards the end of the year, we got married and it was really nice experience. My husband doesn't know that I cheated on him while we were courting not once or twice!! His innocence made me vowed that I will never cheat on him once we are married.

I really enjoyed the youth life because it was fun and wild! When we started living together as couples, he started seeing the unsatisfying woman he married. He is 7 years older than me may be that was why he was always getting tired of sex and wanted more talking.

I really didn't enjoy sex in marriage and my husband's manhood is a little bit below average. One of the guys I dated had very large size: that was the biggest issue I had. I was worried because the fun in sex died.

He wasn't this young vibrant adventurous man so, sex with my husband was below average! I cried over this issue but I never opened up to him. My husband loved me so much, cheating on him was one thing I swore never to do no matter how crazy I am about sex.

This has made me cold towards him, emotionally depressed, disappointed with myself because if I didn't do stupid things while in school may be, I would have been the happiest woman today. My husband is a very caring man.

You people may not really understand what I'm passing through. Most times I just feel that someone can satisfy me the way I want! My husband is too easy going for my liking but I will not allow another man to sleep with his wife.

I complained about this in a forum and some people advised me to buy a sex toy which I did! I'm always using it each time my husband is not around and he doesn't know and I pray he doesn't find out. But it is better I use sex toy than another man to sleep with me.

I feel a little bit satisfied now as a result of the sex toy but I still feel bad with myself. Well, I have a child and he is a boy. It is really embarrassing to be saying this but I’m saying it because I really and sincerely regret the kind of life style I lived in school. I could have controlled myself.

Ladies need to be very careful because you don't know the type of man you will get married to. Keep yourself till you get married and even if you can't keep yourself, try and make sure you don't jump from one man to another because your virginal will expand and it may become a serious issue between you and your husband. I’m very sure many married women are experiencing the same thing but will not share it out like I have done.

If your husband is the first man you are sleeping with, there is no way you will know if he is with an average, small or big manhood. It is very, very frustrating, if you have tasted a better one and start tasting another one that is small or not that good enough.

I see ladies do the same thing I did these days but I wish they marry a man who can satisfy them, because if they don't, they are going to experience war in their various marriages. Don't allow anyone to deceive you. I pray God helps me.

Thanks once again Dr.love because you are doing a great job. At your age, you are writing like a man who is married. God bless you.

Drlove, I sincerely appreciate your posts, they are wonderful and unique. I read your post each time you update your site and I must confess, your posts are very nice and educating. I really want to share my current marital challenges with other readers especially the singles among us and make them see how my past life style is dealing with me now and for them to avoid my mistakes.

I will not reveal my name for the interest of my marriage. I'm seriously having problems with my marriage and I'm so ashamed of myself.
I'm a Nigerian and I attended one of Nigeria’s universities. I graduated 7 years ago. I married the year I graduated from the university.

I lived a very wayward life while in the university. I wasn't that wayward while in secondary school. I don't know how I found myself in such a mess up life.

It all started when I was in year two and I was 20 years old then. My roommates where ‘wana bies’ type of students and they gradually influenced me!

Each night, my two other roommates will stay awake discussing sex. They will be talking about how sweet sex is and how they wish to find a sweet boy friend who can always make them feel the real pleasure of sex.

I joined them on one of the nights they were discussing about sex. The three of us used to luck our room door and sometimes will were half naked ! It is not like we were lesbians, no, but we wanted to talk about sex and demonstrate how some ladies are pounded on while having sex.

One of my roommates was the leader of all the topics about sex. She told us that she already had sex when she was 15 and it wasn't that sweet at first but later on, the experience became very amazing!

According to her, the boy who used to sex her was 17 years but they later moved out of the street and since then, she never experienced sex again.

We usually pray to get a good boyfriend who is faithful and always ready to sex anytime any day and anywhere. Our major problem for not getting boyfriend was that it was very hard to find a faithful guy who loved sex as much as we loved it.

Most guys who loved sex as much as we loved it were cheats and we were scared of diseases not even pregnancy!

Luckily for us, we went to a party one day and there we met different guys and at the end of that party, the three of us were hooked up.

I started a relationship with the guy I met at the party and I told him how I cherished faithfulness and sex and the guy promised to be there for me anytime. He was in final year when we met.

After a month we started dating, we started having wonderful wild sex often. He was sweet and good. I lost my virginity to him but I was less worried about that. Sex with him was great. He did most things I asked him to do for me while having sex and I experienced orgasm often.

We were now living up to our fantasies about sex and we were happy. I used to take different types of drugs to prevent pregnancy and there was a doctor who used advice on safe sex. We did HIV test before we started having sex and we vowed to have each other alone.

Sometimes I will call him and tell him that I was feeling honey and immediately, he will come over and satisfy me usually in his room. I loved him so much. We had wild sex: any where, anytime, anyhow and he was a master on that!

Some months later, he graduated and we were both happy. We never talked about marriage and one day, he told me the possibility of us getting married. That was when I knew that some guys can be indebted to a lady because of sex.

He went for NYSC and the problem came in! We stopped seeing frequently which means that we stopped having sex frequently. I complained bitterly and I felt bad.

My ex roommates were lucky because their own boyfriends were in the same level with them so, they were still enjoying sex while I was starving! I used to visit him but the difficulties and distance were really a headache.

At that period, I started having sex only once a month and it was really a hell of experience. One day, I called one of my ex roommates and when she picked her call she was having hot sex and I was hearing her sexually expressing her pleasures. I dropped the call and became frustrated!

The idea of getting another boyfriend came to my mind and that was the begging of my changing boyfriend to boyfriend.


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