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My sex driven past life is killing my marriage now!!!
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Drlove, I sincerely appreciate your posts, they are wonderful and unique. I read your post each time you update your site and I must confess, your posts are very nice and educating. I really want to share my current marital challenges with other readers especially the singles among us and make them see how my past life style is dealing with me now and for them to avoid my mistakes.
I will not reveal my name for the interest of my marriage. I'm seriously having problems with my marriage and I'm so ashamed of myself.
I'm a Nigerian and I attended one of Nigeria’s universities. I graduated 7 years ago. I married the year I graduated from the university.
I lived a very wayward life while in the university. I wasn't that wayward while in secondary school. I don't know how I found myself in such a mess up life.
It all started when I was in year two and I was 20 years old then. My roommates where ‘wana bies’ type of students and they gradually influenced me!
Each night, my two other roommates will stay awake discussing sex. They will be talking about how sweet sex is and how they wish to find a sweet boy friend who can always make them feel the real pleasure of sex.
I joined them on one of the nights they were discussing about sex. The three of us used to luck our room door and sometimes will were half naked ! It is not like we were lesbians, no, but we wanted to talk about sex and demonstrate how some ladies are pounded on while having sex.
One of my roommates was the leader of all the topics about sex. She told us that she already had sex when she was 15 and it wasn't that sweet at first but later on, the experience became very amazing!
According to her, the boy who used to sex her was 17 years but they later moved out of the street and since then, she never experienced sex again.
We usually pray to get a good boyfriend who is faithful and always ready to sex anytime any day and anywhere. Our major problem for not getting boyfriend was that it was very hard to find a faithful guy who loved sex as much as we loved it.
Most guys who loved sex as much as we loved it were cheats and we were scared of diseases not even pregnancy!
Luckily for us, we went to a party one day and there we met different guys and at the end of that party, the three of us were hooked up.
I started a relationship with the guy I met at the party and I told him how I cherished faithfulness and sex and the guy promised to be there for me anytime. He was in final year when we met.
After a month we started dating, we started having wonderful wild sex often. He was sweet and good. I lost my virginity to him but I was less worried about that. Sex with him was great. He did most things I asked him to do for me while having sex and I experienced orgasm often.
We were now living up to our fantasies about sex and we were happy. I used to take different types of drugs to prevent pregnancy and there was a doctor who used advice on safe sex. We did HIV test before we started having sex and we vowed to have each other alone.
Sometimes I will call him and tell him that I was feeling honey and immediately, he will come over and satisfy me usually in his room. I loved him so much. We had wild sex: any where, anytime, anyhow and he was a master on that!
Some months later, he graduated and we were both happy. We never talked about marriage and one day, he told me the possibility of us getting married. That was when I knew that some guys can be indebted to a lady because of sex.
He went for NYSC and the problem came in! We stopped seeing frequently which means that we stopped having sex frequently. I complained bitterly and I felt bad.
My ex roommates were lucky because their own boyfriends were in the same level with them so, they were still enjoying sex while I was starving! I used to visit him but the difficulties and distance were really a headache.
At that period, I started having sex only once a month and it was really a hell of experience. One day, I called one of my ex roommates and when she picked her call she was having hot sex and I was hearing her sexually expressing her pleasures. I dropped the call and became frustrated!
The idea of getting another boyfriend came to my mind and that was the begging of my changing boyfriend to boyfriend.
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