True Lovers World

Most times, two partners find themselves arguing endlessly. These endless arguments often lead to emotional break down and long term malice between the two partners. Yeah, I know what I'm talking about-endless arguments can be very disturbing and annoying. The both of you might of planned never to fight or argue but you both find each other doing it again and again. Does it sound like you?

"Well, love sometimes make us to argue endlessly but I hate endless arguments, it makes me say very hurtful things to my partner, we have tried our best to control it but it's not working out, should we break up?” (read reasons you don't have to break up with your partner) That was an email one of my readers sent to me three days ago. I took up the issue and was discussing it with some people and they were all saying that the do experience similar scenario.

Don't get me wrong, there are some relationships where arguments is not a routine while there are those that have it as routine. If you are in the later type of relationship, I'm sorry because I know you must have been passing through hell.

I'm not against relationship conflicts please because relationship conflicts will never leave us. Relationship conflicts are part of relationship. When I wrote on facts about relationship, I stated that you can never love your partner all the time. That's true but when you both argues endlessly, it means that there is something wrong somewhere!

From my own personal experiences and opinions and observations, partners argue endlessly because of the following reasons:
1. Selfishness: Some people are just naturally selfish! They only want things to be favourable to them and relationship is a two way communication process that involves two people. In this case, the actions of the selfish lover affects the other and the other keeps complaining and the selfish lover knowing full well that he/she was wrong will want to defend his/her actions which leads to endless arguments. Does it sound like you?
Read what is true love?, Signs of true love and signs that you're in love

2. Myopic oriented reasons: Many people are not born Librans (Zodiac sign) so, many people are myopic when it comes to judging things. This is what I also call narrow mindedness. When it comes to two people in a relationship and one is myopic or the both are myopic, it becomes very difficult preventing argument. People in most cases myopically judge actions. This is one big factor that causes endless arguments between partners.

3. Too much of love between the two partners: Extreme desire to love and be loved in most cases make partners to quarrel or argue. This one is very common among people who are loving for the very first time. Well, I can't write all the reasons here because of space, I'm currently writing a book on this boring but very important topic in relationship.

1. Give each other a break for a while (don't date any another person, Just see how life would be without your partner. Remember, don't call, don't text, don't email, don't facebook etc.

2. Give each other a break and date other person(s) for a while then compare

3. Talk about it often and seek for counseling often

4. Have separate activities more: I mean you both have to reduce doing things together often.

5. Have independent friends

6. Engage each other in very tasking things

7. Capitalize on the incredible opportunities of making up: The fact remains that sex, romance, love after serious argument or quarrel is usually very interesting. The both of you should always make use of this opportunity and with time, things might get better.

I'm doing a full detail book on this and I will be done soonest. Endless argument in relationship is not healthy at all. It can be very frustrating. I hope this post served it purpose. You can see it is a long post. Please, kindly share this post with your friends, comment and 'like' the post, that is all you own me.
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