Tuesday
True love story-I got married to my best friend
Greetings to you Dr.love and my fellow lovers of true love stories, sharing this side of my love story is to encourage others who are in the level I was some years ago and also to encourage those who have been heart broken by someone who claimed to love them. I also want to share this true love story of mine so as to disproof those who don't believe in true love. I had some friends who told me point blank that love does not exist in their own world. Thank good God that I didn't believe them. If had listen to them, may be, I would have continued to listen to all ‘the single ladies’ song by Beyonce even up till now. Hope this love story will not only entertain you, I hope it also teaches you smartness, love, romance and forgiveness. I met my present husband far back in the college, during my first year of admission.
I hope you are not shocked with this fact, well, we are just three years old in the marriage and everything is going fine. May be we had some minor issues but they all died immediately!!! We buried the damn minor issues and they went down just like that!!! That is simply because we are smart and understands each other. Now, how did we meet?
My husband and I were classmate, friends, best friend, gossip mate, believe me, it doesn't sound too cool when I call him: gossip mate, he hated it with passion, but that is the simple truth. I had just few friends who were never around because they were never available so, my husband now, who was my boy friend, then, became my only source of gossiping!!! The bad thing about it then was that he knew nothing to gossip about. I was the only one always doing the gossip thing and I hated the fact that I was the only one doing it. Now, let face the main fact. I have being sounding like I never had problems in my relationship.......believe me fellow lovers of love stories, it was very tough and I had multiple heartbreaks instead of multiple orgasm!!!!!! I trusted our relationship to the extent that I started taking several considerations for granted. I was so much in love and I knew and strongly believed that he loved me too so, I neglected the protectionism aspect of true love and I was hit hard, I mean very hard. My so called boyfriend cheated on me!!!!!!!!! I hope you aren’t screaming, because he didn’t just cheat on me but cheated with my own very good female friend!!!!!!!!!!! I know by now you are already jumping up but what could you have done in this kind of scenario? Ask me what I did.
I just left them immediately I saw them at the spot and that was the end of my relationship with my present husband. This incident happened three years after we met and his uncontrollable sexual desire ended our relationship. Do you know the worst part of it? he didn't beg nor explain!!!!!!!! He went his separate way, while I did the same too.
Two years later after we both had graduated from the college, we met at a bank!!!!! He was looking very cute, I was shocked to see him again and I couldn't believe that we were so excited for seeing each other. That isn’t the odd news, the odd news is that we had sex that same day, we fail in love again and admitted that we missed each other. I decided to open my heart and forgive him. He said something during our forgiveness conversation, he said: ‘that I failed once does not mean I’m not good for you’ that statement touched me so much. I accepted him and we got married one year later!!!! We are living very fine now. I was smart enough to had accepted my boy friend again and also forgave him and today, we are fine. My point here is that we should try and forgive. No body is perfect and even you who is angry because your boyfriend or girlfriend cheated is not even perfect. Why not forgive his/her mistake because, you may be the next victim of violation of true love rules and regulations.
Believe me fellow lovers of love stories; I'm more than glad that I met him again. Yes, he cheated on me and so? It could have been a mistake and no one is above mistake. I think repetition of a particular attitude is what I consider that shouldn't be forgiven in true love, not an attitude that happened just once or twice. Are you with me fellow lovers of love stories? The point I'm emphasizing here is that if you have built your relationship for that long and it took you both time to know and understand each other, I don't see any reason why either of you would find it very difficult to forgive your partner. Even if it is relationship cheat that your partner committed, he/she still deserve your forgiveness. This is because the love and understanding both of you built will take time for you to build again with another person. Please, do not give up your relationship simply because your partner hurt you. I'm not encouraging cheat though, but I'm encouraging forgiveness. You have your full right never to forgive only if your partner continues to hurt you deliberately. Well, I have come to the end of my true love story. Once again, I say thank you to Dr.love for his efforts. Please, please, fellow lovers of love stories, you can always help assist Dr.love in his efforts by sharing his posts with your friends on twitter, face book, dig, Google plus etc. It will not cost you money, just click a button and share with your friends.
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DRLOVE:
Dear reader, if you enjoyed this love story shared by another reader, you too can share yours by simply writing and submitting it to my email : renacentanugwom@yahoo.com. remember, your story will be subject to editing to fit in with the standard, but the story theme will not be tampered. thanks.
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