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Couples must Fight!!
Why couples always fight
Couples fight is
part of relationship experiences; please, don't give up on someone you are sure
loves you because of occasional or frequent fighting between the two of you...by Dr.love
Couples
must fight! They must fight!! Even you and your partner must fight! There are
no two ways about it. Whether you like it or not, you and that your partner
must fight! Fighting between couple comes in two ways: it could be very serious
and it may not be serious. Depending on the side the fight comes from, couples
must fight but what really matters is how the couples handle their fight which
will come periodically or often and how they see their fight.
Some
weeks ago, I was passing a street in my neighborhood and I saw two couples
fighting seriously!
The both are married and have a child. What really brought
up their quarrel was because of their business. Now, the two of them abused
each other recklessly! Especially the woman; there was nothing she didn’t say. She
even told her husband that she would go to the extent of sleeping with another
man in order to deal with him (her husband)! Shocker right? But that was her
words. She even told her husband she would make him regret getting married and
so many other things.
The
husband on the other hand was just calling the woman: “mad and useless woman”
etc. But do you know that three days later, the both of them continued their
marriage? Not only that they continued their marriage but were seen outside
playing together. They became stronger in bond.
The surprising thing was that
people who gathered during their fight thought they were going to separate.
Some couples would have given up on each other thinking that relationship or
marriage is a bed of roses. It is about how many times you both fought, it is
about how stronger you both get after each fight because if it is about fighting,
couples must definitely fight.
There
are many people like that today and are easily giving up on their love ones
because they couldn’t absorb relationship problems. The issue is that couples
must past through series of fighting and hurtful moments in order to grow
stronger. What you should do as an individual is to check out how your good moments
with you partner seems. Also look out the qualities the person possesses (read: qualities women seek in men and qualities men desire in women). Furthermore,
you should be looking at if you truly want to spend the rest of your life with
that person.
Over look the fighting because it will surely come. Couples should
also mind what they say to their fellow partners during fighting because it doesn’t
worth it if you say very harsh and frustrating things to your partner all
because you are having issues with him/her.
Don’t
say things that will make your partner go thinking so deep, learn to control
your verbal expression during couples fight. Understand that the fight is just
part of relationship experiences and will surely be settled when the time come.
One of my readers once told me that: “sometimes I wonder why we fight in
relationships, sometimes I wonder why we say those painful words to the person
we love so much knowing so well that we love the person. I’m asking because at
the end of the fight, with all the frowning of faces, and vexing and boiling,
we will still make love” I laughed hard when he said that to me and I saw reasons
with what he was saying.
Seriously,
there is no reason for condemning yourself because you had problems with your
partner, there is no need feeling dejected, there is no reason of saying
hurtful things because they are all vanity upon vanity since make up is on
the way. Couples should learn to manage the fight between them. Couples should
learn not to give up all hopes because of one major fight. It pays to endure.
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be a little nice to me by clicking link and then share this post with your
friends online. Couples must fight is part of true love relationship blog.
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