Wednesday
10 things you should never say to your man
10 things you should never say to your man
Hello
ladies, hope you all are doing great? There is one syndrome growing rapidly
among most ladies of these modern times. This syndrome dwells so much on not
knowing what to say to your man as a woman. Men are very sensitive with words.
Most men don’t know how to talk back at women as a result there are certain
things you should never say to your man as a woman. There are certain words you should
never vomit to your man. Any time you say any of these 10 things to your man,
you’re really pushing him off but you don’t know. Saying any of these 10 things
will cause severe injuries inside his heart. Be warned ladies, try never to say
any of these 10 things to your man. Below are the first 10 things you should
never say to your man:
10.
You’re just like your father
In
no account should you compare your man with his father. Men hate it when you
tell them that they are simply like their father. Your man just like any other
man wants to be independent and better than his own father. This is why you
shouldn’t tell him that he is just like his father. (Read up: Qualities Dr.love seek in women) and (Qualities men seek in women)
09.
When are you going to find a new job?
Now,
may be your man’s job is not that good or it is not paying him very well or it consumes his time, you don’t
have to make it so vivid that you want him to find a new one. If you ask him that
kind of question, it will signify to him that you doubt his capacity as a man
to provide or meet up with responsibilities. This will surely push him away to another woman where he finds respect and believe. (Read: How to Secure your man from leaving you for another woman)
All you have to do is to communicate with him about it and give him reasons you think he should get a new job. This is why you should say something like: sweetheart, I think you should get a new job because.... Even if you have said it that way several times and he is not responding, I advise you inform someone he respect so much and you guys can talk it out( that is if you have lost your patience with him) but in a situation where you still have the patience, keep communicating to him about the need for him to get a new job. (Read, how to communicate with your partner)
08.
My mother actually warned me about you doing this…
This
kind of statement will surely put him in cold condition. Men hate to be
doubted. If you tell him that your mother warned you before now about him doing
certain things, it shows to him that you’re taking side with your mother instead
of taking side with him or with the relationship. No matter the situation, always support your man (Read: Your roles as a woman in your Relationship)
07.
Talks about your ex
This
kind of talks makes men very jealous especially if your topic about your ex is
portraying your ex as a good guy and a nice man. Another direction of topics
your man will never love to hear about your ex is when you’re comparing him
with your ex. (Read up: How to get over your ex)
06.
Never say anything that implies that you are directly or indirectly better than
your man
Your
man just like any other man is a competitive being. This means that men love
and cherish their pride and ego more than anything.
On no account should you
ever say things implying that you are better than your man directly or
indirectly even if it is obvious. This is why most career conscious women find it difficult to maintain a good marriage. Men don't like the competition from women. Smart women who desire independent success from their men achieve good marriage by consciously showing the respect the man need and indirectly and directly agreeing that their husbands are better than them.
05.
Never Nag your man to do anything
This
is not good in any way. This is because men hate it when women nag! This means that you should never say anything that implies that you're nagging at your man while urging him to do something (Read, Signs you are a Nag)
04.
Can’t you do it like my ex?
As
I said in the early point I made, don’t ever compare your man with your ex.
Except you want to break up or end the relationship. (Read up: Signs you're falling out of love)
03.
Why are you so stupid?
Some
women do this but it is absolutely wrong of any woman to ask her man if he is stupid. Don't ever use certain words that portray verbal insult to your man especially in the public.
02.
I have dated better guys
This
is horrible to most men. There is nothing to gain telling your man that you
have dated other better guys. You’re only killing the relationship, please,
hold it. (Read up: 5 secrets to successful Relationship)
01.
You are weak at bed
Men
don’t joke with their bedroom pride. On no account should you ever tell your
man that he is weak when it comes to bedroom acts. The truth about this is that
men will never find anything fun about telling them that they are weak whether on bed or anything else. Even if you think your man is weak, hold it to your self.
I hope you really took notes of these 10 things you should never say to your man. Try and make sure you're careful with your words in order to avoid saying any of these 10 things to your man.
|
Get free daily email updates! |
Follow us! 
|
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
0 Responses to “10 things you should never say to your man”
Post a Comment
Love to hear from you my friend