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What to do if your man is cheating on you
Things to do once your man starts cheating on you
I have
written many posts related to cheating in relationships. I have a post on whywomen cheat in relationship, why men cheat in relationships and signs your man is cheating on you. In this post as I promised in the previous post, I will be
talking about what you should do once your man starts cheating on you or once
you suspect your man is cheating on you. I’m not saying it’s going to be easy
carrying out my advice on what you should do once your man has started cheating
on you but I think, it’s the best thing to do if you find yourself in this kind
of situation:
1: Don’t
accuse him until you find out for real:
Most
times, ladies make this mistake of accusing their partner of cheating on them
when they are yet to prove it! It’s completely wrong because you will give him
rooms to readjust his strategies of cheating on you since the accusation will make
him know that you’re already getting to know about his cheating escapades! Don’t
forget that you are expected to trust your partner until there is a factual
reason not to. Read up Building a formidable relationship based on trust and
How to rebuild trust in relationship after it has been bridged.
2: Take
him out and ask him gently
You can
decide to take your man out and ask him if he is really cheating on you. Now,
most times, men cheat but there is no factual evidence to accuse them of the
cheating so, what you have to do is to take him out on a date, look into his
eyes during your conversations, hold his hands, be soft and calm and ask him: “baby,
are you cheating on me”. Don’t accuse him of cheating on you but ask him if he
is. I’m not saying this strategy works all the time. It depends on the type of
man you’re dating. If you’re dating a player, I’m sure it will not work for
him. Read up: Signs you’re dating a player.
3: Be
calm
Okay,
you have discovered factually and empirically that your man is cheating on you!
The best thing to do is to be calm and decide what to do next. At this stage,
you’re considering best options. Some ladies cheat also immediately they find
out that their partner cheated on them! That’s is a wrong strategy my dear. While
you’re acting calm, you need maturity to decide.
Make sure you find out why he
cheated on you and decide whether to forgive him immediately or allow him go
through period of feeling guilt for a longer time. It is all your choice but please,
don’t ever quit your man because he cheated!
4:
Handle within
Please,
don’t take the problem outside your relationship except the need calls for it.
Don’t take it to your family members. It is better to consult your spiritual
father or mother or kindly consult a professional. The listed options should
only take place when the problem cannot be handled by you two.
5: Don’t
ever fight
Yeah,
some ladies go all the crazy way to fight the lady who was cheating with their
partner. Well, that is really bad! Don’t do that. You can really sort things
out with her (that is if you choose to) or you can simply act as if she never
existed. Hold on to your man my dear.
Well, I
have come to the end of this interesting post. I hope you enjoyed it. What to do
when your man is cheating on you is very important in every relationship. I
believe that there is solution to everything in life. What to do when your man
cheats on you is part of true love relationship-advice blog post. In one of my
next posts, I will be talking about why you shouldn’t quit your man when he
cheats on you. Don’t ever miss out on
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