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Lack of communication in relationship
Communication
is the sending of message(s) from one person(s) to person(s). Encarta
dictionary defined it to mean to give or exchange information. As for me, I
define communication in relationship context to mean, the exchange of
information and feelings between partners. The lack of communication has caused
divorce and break up in relationships worldwide. Now let look at
the problem of lack of communication in true love relationship. I hope you understand
what Dr.love is trying to pass to true lovers out there. Just
know that no matter how true and real your love relationship may be if
there is lack of communication in the relationship, the love
relationship is likely going to crumble.
From my own
definition of communication, you will see that when information and feelings
are not exchanged between partners, it leads to lack of communication in the
relationship. This will surely lead to wrong interpretation of message,
lack of trust (learn how to build trust in your relationship), low
pace of the fun, low pace of love, lack of understanding and so on. When all
these are noticed in your relationship, how then can you and your partner enjoy
the relationship? Now looking at lack or poor communication in a relationship,
I mean, the inability of you and your partner to share feelings and express the
desired information as it concerns the relationship. I want to break this down
as little as possible; in the case of feelings, I mean how you feel about your
partner; this means how much you love him or her, the joy your partner brings
to you, how excited you are to see him or her and so on, the question is how
often do you tell your partner how you feel about him or her?. Are you
following my trend?
In the case of information, I mean basic and necessary
information as it concerns the relationship. When I say as it concerns
the relationship means that any thing that concerns you and (or) partner
personally concerns the relationship. For instance, if you are going to visit a
place and you feel that it’s your own business and you aren't going to come
back before the appointed time you had with your partner, it will be in the
interest of the relationship to inform your partner about your move in case of
the unexpected happening. This is because the unexpected may cause
misunderstanding in the relationship. Information is communication. Let look at
the case of marriage;
As for
marriage, lack of communication has made matters worse for some couples. Wife
no longer talk to husband as it suppose to be and husband is doing the same and
children are suffering it. Couples are so busy that they no longer share
feelings to themselves. Most couples have underestimated the importance of
communicating feelings in their marriage and when one of them gets it outside
the marriage, the fellow tends to compromise. I don’t have much space to talk
about this here.
Let look at
the causes of lack communication in any type of love relationship;
1.Shyness,
2.carelessness,
3.ignorance,
4.stress,
5.old age,
6.lack of
material things,
These are
the basic causes of lack of communication in relationships.
Looking at
suggestions to overcome lack of communication in relationship;
1.I advise
couples to decide on a particular day in every week to sit down for couples'
talk. This can be done in the house or outside the house. This will give them
the opportunity to share feelings and information calmly.
2.For shy
partners and couples, they can choose to use written format to express their
feelings. This can be done through text messages or on paper and should be
giving to the other partner to read.
3.Romantic
movies can be watched together by couples to learn other ways they can communicate
love to each other. Romantic movies stimulates affection.
4.What I'm
saying is that anything that speaks about love expression should be read and
studied by both parties; doing it together will enhance communication in the
relationship.
Overcome your shyness by telling your partner that you are shy
when it comes to telling him or her how you feel, this may lead your partner to
always help you out to express yourself. Tell your partner how much he or she
means to you, don't allow another person to do it for you.
Finally, I
advice both couples and lovers to use time to read the non verbal means of
communication loaded in their partners body language. This is because, some
people prefer to send you love message more using their eyes, lips, body
movement, tears, open mindedness, smiles, fashions, fingers, footsteps and so
many other ways of communicating love.
I also
recommend that partners should understand their partner very well and books on
relationship communication should be read together by both parties. You can email me for
your personal issues in your relationship, I promise to open your eyes
and mind to many more issues that can help solve any kind of problem you may be
having in your relationship or intended relationship. Please, share this beautiful post if you really read it.
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