Friday
How to build trust in your relationship
Building trust is not
easy and over usage of trust in your true love relationship can be very
bad too. Here, I want to offer to you true love advice that will help you and your partner to build trust
in the relationship.
Trust is not what you
come up with within over night; it is a gradual development and takes time to complete and it is needed in every relationship especial; true love relationship where the two partners are hoping to get married. I have come to realize that most new partners easily jump into trust without building the foundation for trust in the relationship. This is one mistake that most new partners make in their
relationship. Some people will ask you; didn't you both trust each other?’ how
can you both trust yourselves when you both just started and have not actually
done the love trust test? There must
be some series of true love tests that will lead to trust between the both of you.
For instance, you both
must have come of age in the relationship and must have tested each others'
faithfulness to some reasonable extent: if you and your partner have known that you both
hardly lie to each other and when you say you are here, and your partner wants to see you, if he/she decides to go there to see you, let it be that he/she will definitely meet you there.
If you tell your partner that you are doing something at a particular time, let it be that you are really doing that which you said you were doing. Do you get me? Relationship trust even starts with those things you regard as being little.
Some people make the mistake to assume that those little things don't matter.
look my dear, they matter, take for instance, if you promise your partner that you are coming home at a particular time, please do as you have promised, try everything within your power to come home as you promised but if as a result of reasonable and unavoidable circumstances which will definitely result to your unable to come home or lead to you coming home late, try and inform your partner on time and tell him/her the reasons in romantic and appealing tone, are you with me?. Effective communication also helps build trust in relationship.
If you tell your partner that you are doing something at a particular time, let it be that you are really doing that which you said you were doing. Do you get me? Relationship trust even starts with those things you regard as being little.
Some people make the mistake to assume that those little things don't matter.
look my dear, they matter, take for instance, if you promise your partner that you are coming home at a particular time, please do as you have promised, try everything within your power to come home as you promised but if as a result of reasonable and unavoidable circumstances which will definitely result to your unable to come home or lead to you coming home late, try and inform your partner on time and tell him/her the reasons in romantic and appealing tone, are you with me?. Effective communication also helps build trust in relationship.
From the initial stage
of the relationship, you both must be familiar with each others' phones, email,
face book and, twitter activities etc. After some months or years, you
both must have gotten used to each others' personal affairs and have seen that
there is nothing fishy about them, then, you can now be talking of trust in the relationship. Trust
is as a result of long period of faithfulness from both of you, please, it does
not come over night.
Advantages of trust to
your relationship
Now, some people may be
jealous of you both and may try to destroy the relationship by formulating lies
against you and your partner.
You or your partner may be accused of cheating but with trust, you both will never believe it until seen with the eyes or your. I heard of a partner who once said that: ‘even if I'm shown pictures of my finance making love with another person, I will refuse to believe it because even pictures can lie, I have to see it myself before I believe it’ when asked of how old their relationship is, I was told that they were four years old into the relationship. Can you see what I'm saying? Trust needs time to mature.
If you make the mistake of jumping to trust your partner, you may end up destroying yourself.
You or your partner may be accused of cheating but with trust, you both will never believe it until seen with the eyes or your. I heard of a partner who once said that: ‘even if I'm shown pictures of my finance making love with another person, I will refuse to believe it because even pictures can lie, I have to see it myself before I believe it’ when asked of how old their relationship is, I was told that they were four years old into the relationship. Can you see what I'm saying? Trust needs time to mature.
If you make the mistake of jumping to trust your partner, you may end up destroying yourself.
With formidable trust
in your love relationship, you both will never assume anything about each other. It
is very healthy never to assume in your relationship. I believe that with
formidable trust, you and your partner will find it very difficult cheating
because, none of you will love to destroy the long built trust in the
relationship.
Share this true love
advice with your friends if you find it interesting. What do you think of trust in the relationship and can we hear of your own personal experiences? comment in the box bellow. thanks for reading.
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