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I'm sure that lots of people have turn into the act of criticism in their relationships recently. Criticism is not healthy for any relationship. I know most people don't really know when they criticize their partner so much. Well, if you're among this growing number of persons who constantly criticize their partners, I hope this post can help you out.
First of all, you have to understand that your attitude towards your partner is not healthy and is not doing your relationship any good at all. Criticism in your relationship is what you and your partner must put an end to.

I know some people who are in this act of criticism will never agree that they are into it. I will give you a description of what constitutes criticism in any relationship:

One common factor with partners who criticize in their relationship is that they don't see good aspects of their partners. All they see and notice are the negative aspects of their partners. They are perfect in condemnation, nagging and complaining. Every single action of their partners are questioned.

Furthermore, partners who are best in this act are not always balance in their judgments and are very, very selfish. Even when their partner makes any reasonable effort to move the relationship forward, they tend to pick on the negative aspect of their actions.

Another important aspect of partners who engage in criticism is the fact that they correct almost every move made by their partner. All they can see is mistake, mistake and mistake.
What could make some partners engage in the act of criticism?

Well, from my little experience some people are born to criticize everything in life. Though I don't think there is a scientific proof to this but I know that some people are just naturally into this act and relationship is not exceptional to them.

Some people have myopic mindset towards their partner: These category of people experience good aspects of their partner but they are moved more by their mistakes.

Family background: some people's family background is making them criticize so much in their relationship.
Finally, some people married or are into relationship with the ‘wrongest’ partners. I mean, these set of people didn't consider the issue of perfect match before getting married or entering into any serious relationship. Read how to find your perfect match

What can you do to stop this act of criticism in your relationship?

There is only one thing I can advise you to do which is: open up your mind to see the good qualities your partner possesses. You have to have a clear mindset towards your partner. Force yourself to appreciate the good things he/she has done no matter how small they seem to you.

You can ask your partner to write down all that he/she has done for you while you do the same too. Immediately you both are done writing out these things, don't show them yet to each other. Just keep it secret. on a separate sheet, list out all your partner has done for you while your partner do the same too.
After all these writing, you both can now compare the lists. You will notice lots of differences and bias. From this moment, if your mind is already open to accept your partner's actions, you will start noticing your partner's wonderful qualities.
Finally, remember that no one is perfect in this life. Also bear it in mind that there are some of your actions which could be very annoying to your partner. Criticism in any relationship will definitely prevent you from experiencing successful relationship.
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