Thursday
Relationship problems
Talking
about problems in relationships, and there causes, have we ever considered
seeing the other side of life? I have being writing posts about relationship
problems but I have decided to take it to another level. Believe it or not,
relationship is a big task and only those with patience, understanding,
tolerance and logical wisdom can survive it. The enormous responsibility
associated with managing relationship has made most people to always have a
single view about handling relationship.
Are
you with me?.. Most people spend lots of
time blaming their partner, complaining of their mistakes and flaws, correcting
them but they have not sat down to ask themselves if they are not the actual
problem. How sure are you that you are not the reason your partner is behaving
that way? The environment and the person(s) around us can make us act the way
we act. This should be taking into consideration before blaming, correcting or
complaining that your relationship is not going right. Remember that some
people’s own is worst!!! Cheer up...
We can always make things right by looking into
own flaws, ask ourselves questions about our own way of acting, try putting ourselves
in our partner’s shoes and see how it goes. What I’m pointing out here is that
you must stop your act of blaming your partner, correcting him/her, directing
him/her, always complaining that things are not too right for your
relationship.
What
I’m advising here is that you should try and search yourself because the
problem may be you. Remember that if you fail to treat the issue that is
causing the main problem in your relationship, it will continue to hunt
you even if you change relationship. Try find out what the problem may
be and try sorting it out. It is after you and your partner might have tried
all the available solutions and it failed to work then, you both can go
separate ways. Men make this type of mistake a lot; they tend to see the
problem of their partner and usually forget their own flaws. As I rightly said
in one of my post; healthy communication in relationship (use communication to save your relationship is still
the best tool to a successful relationship. And searching yourself for
possible flaws so as to correct them is an act of self communication. I don’t
believe that any relationship problem is too difficult to handle in a
true love relationship; partners should check themselves for flaws
identification and measures to solve them. Stop the constant pointing of
fingers on your love partner with the claim that he/she is always at fault,
check yourself!
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