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Qualities women seek in men

No one can deny the fact that relationship can be complicated most times especially when the people involved just don't know what they want. When you know what your partner is seeking from you, it becomes very much easy for the both of you to cope. True love is about the two partners involved in the relationship and every efforts should be made by both lovers to please each other (read 34 signs that he loves you) . One problem I have discovered from men is that they don't really know the qualities women seek from them prior to relationship.
I was in a female forum recently and the ladies there were sincerely talking about the qualities they seek from prospective male lovers (about 550 ladies talking about it). I bet you, if you can have these qualities as a man, you can easily win a very mature lady into relationship with you.

1.Ladies seek for men not boys
The ladies there were really saying this. According to them, they tend to respect men and not boys. This simply means maturity. Remember that maturity is not as a result of age but as a result of state of the mind. You can be 20 and behave like a man. So, if you have a prospective female lover, try and act like a man and she would secretly wish you ask her out.

2. Ladies seek for men who are not too emotional
About 97% of the ladies in that forum were on this opinion. According to them, men who are too emotional are not worthy of their love. Please, try and have control over the state of your emotions: cry less, miss less, be emotionally brave etc. This is very important.

3. Ladies seek for men who are funny
Ladies love to laugh very well. This does not mean that you make everything funny. You have to balance this and be at an average between seriousness and being funny.

4. Ladies seek for men who are mature in conversation
Communication in relationship carries about 80% of the success or failure of any relationship (read how to communicate in relationship). As I have noted in most of posts that ladies are moved by what they hear. According to the ladies in the forum, men who are mature in terms of conversation tend to score high in any woman's score sheet. Have control over what you say, how you say it and when to say it.

5.Ladies seek for men who are very romantic
Believe me, every single lady love and appreciate romance, attention, love quotes, love letters, romantic love sms, love poems, surprises, gifts, special treatments etc. You may have all the money in the world but if you don’t have the romance, your woman is likely going to cheat on you. Learn to be romantic as a man, learn to please your woman. I can teach you all these if you really care to learn. Contact me and book an appointment. (read How to give your partner the desired attention)

6. Ladies seek for men who are brave in sex
Yes, yes, yes….Most of the ladies in this forum were all saying this. You must be a master planer when its come to sex if you really want to win her heart. You should learn to satisfy your woman sexually. Remember that women are very secretive and she may never tell you that she not satisfied sexually. It's left for you to make her confess by dictating the pace of the sex.

7. Ladies seek for men who lead
Believe me, no lady wants to lead her relationship. Every lady wants to be led, protected, and feels secured. The ladies in the forum also agreed to this. As man, learn to lead your relationship. Ladies also admit that when they are in love or in relationship, they make things seem confusing by making it look as if they don't want you the man to lead. But believe me, that's a typical lady for you. Be a leader and not slave and she will fall for you. (Read Sex in your relationship)

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