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This is one big mistake most ladies make before entering into marriage and at the end of the affair, they end up regretting! Some ladies who are truly innocent and sincere have suffered multiple and long lasting heart breaks in marriages simply because they are always making this one particular mistake before marriage. I love my readers and I want to point out this one mistake so that you too can avoid it.


Preparing for wedding and never prepared for after wedding!!
I have realized that most ladies especially in Africa tend to prepare for wedding and fail to prepare for after wedding. This is usually seen in most ladies who consider marriage as the only reason they could date anyone.

These ladies are always interested in the wedding and are carried away by a man's marriage proposal. Most girls forget to have it at the back of their minds that wedding is just couple of hours thing and after marriage is the major issue.

Marriage is more than the cake shared at the marriage ceremony, it is more than the pictures snapped during the marriage ceremony and it's more than all the fun and laughter experienced during the ceremony. Most ladies have failed to understand that marriage goes down to a man's character and attitude.

Some ladies work so hard towards making sure that the man in question marries them. They can pretend and try so hard to impress the man in order to be wedded. Some really want to rush out and feel exceptional from their peers because they want to be called Mrs. I really get worried when I see ladies talking so much about a man marrying them. It is good to talk about the likely hood of the man in your life marrying you but the too much concentration and efforts applied in the relationship with the sole intention of marriage is wrong. What about after that wedding saga? Are you sure you are really prepared for it?

Look dear, it's not until a man proposes to you and take you to the altar and fulfill the promises he made to you that life has offered you the best. Nooooo, not at all, there are some men in your life that need to leave your life but you will never notice this because you are blindfolded with the concept of ‘every lady must get married’. Are you with me?

Some ladies believe that it is very important that they get married to a man who loves them but they don't love the man in return. Forget it, you can never be truly happy if you don't love the person in return.
Forget it, you will find it difficult to know if a man really loves you if the man is wealthy and the same goes to You have to separate true love from money and material things in order for you to make the right choice. You must not allow the fun of wedding to carry you out of reality and you must not allow the zealous strategies of modern men to carry you away from reality-after wedding saga.

Putting marriage as the only real bases before you date man can be a very wrong path to trek because once a man who doesn't love you finds out that marriage is the only tool he can use to get you to fall him, he may pretend to the highest level just to get you.

1. Don't believe that every relationship must end up in marriage because if you have such mindset, you may likely end up marrying a man who never really knew that he doesn't love you.

2. Don't hate a man who didn't marry you because some are meant to come and go. All you have to do is to try and learn from every relationship you find yourself.

3. Never base the reason for you not to be in a relationship with any man on sex issues. Some ladies refuse some guys because these guys may be interested in sex and they aren't. If this intention are made too open and too obvious to the guys you are shunning away from the relationship, one of them may be ready to put himself in your shoes just to get you laid. Examine the above reason properly please.

4. Don't be carried away by your man's promises and fulfillment of them.

5. Have it at the back of your mind that marriage is the end of journey but the beginning of journey itself. If this concept is really examined, many ladies will not make this big mistake.

6. Remember that all is vanity but true love stays for you. At your death bed, all you ever have will just not be there for you except true love: Learn to marry for love and not for riches.

7. Learn to invest less for the wedding and save more for the after wedding. Forget the news your wedding may make simply because you have spent millions to stage the ceremony. What really matter is the after wedding. Save your money, energy, fun and intelligence for the after wedding challenges. Many ladies spend so much preparing for the wedding just to impress society and at the end of the ceremony, the marriage crashes!!

8. Call less people for your marriage. Try and invite only the people who really matter for your marriage because they don't really count. You don't need such crowd for your marriage.

9. Stop learning from wrong role models. This is one of the biggest mistake most ladies make while traveling to marriage. They always base their learning from celebrities. Why make a celerity your role model? Don't envy their lifestyle. Do you know that most of them want to be like you? Most of them are not really happy with the fact that they are public figures. It's really funny because most ladies want to have the kind of wedding celebrities normally have but are not ready to experience that kind of marriage most of these celebrities have.

10. Stop doubting the possibilities of true love happening in your life. Some ladies hate and cast love simply because love failed them sometimes ago. Be positive towards true love and appreciate people who have found love. STOP THE NEGATIVITY YOU HAVE OVER LOVE

I hope this long post on one big mistake almost every lady makes before marriage is helpful. Please, try and examine your reasons before you embark on marriage journey. Do try and share this post on your facebook, twiter, dig, google+ etc.