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How to forgive your partner easily
Forgiveness
is very important in every relationship including yours. I have come to realize
that most people find it very difficult to forgive the person they claim to
love dearly. It is very understanding why most people seem not to forgive
easily especially when it comes to the person they really love.
This
is because the person you love so much is the person you put the highest
expectations on and you forget that he/she is a human and can make some silly
mistakes anytime and anywhere.
Most
people tend to believe that their loved ones are angels sent from heaven and
they aren’t supposed to hurt them. That is a big lie because he/she will really
hurt you someday and the earlier you start believing this the better for you.
Why
should you forgive your lover easily?
When
you forgive, you aren't doing your partner a favour alone, you're also doing
yourself a very big favour because your heart will be delivered from constant
torment. It may be hard to forget but I tell you, if you forgive with all
sincerity, you will forget too. You may remember such offenses any time
something similar happens again.
Forgiveness
will open the window for renewal in your relationship and allow you and your
partner to move on.
Easy
forgiveness sometimes will make your partner feel very guilty that he/she will
change for good.
If
you don’t forgive, you aren’t helping matters and you seriously don’t want to
let go so, why don't you forgive and demand your partner to change from those
activities that seems to hurt you.
Forgiveness is a very important characteristics, qualities and signs of true love. Read the following posts:
Finally,
you don’t know if you will make a mistake tomorrow so, why not forgive your
partner easily?
Steps
to forgive your lover easily
1. Divert
your mind towards accepting forgiveness: Your mind remains the most
powerful tool which you can use to determine your mood and reactions. You have
to accept that forgiven your partner is very necessary for you to have a better
mindset. This is what I call 'awareness' in mind programming.
The mind
is very powerful and you have control over it. No matter the magnitude of the
offense you partner might have committed, the mind can twist everything to look
ordinary. Work on your mind and achieve forgiveness with it.
2.
Think of all the good things your partner have done for you: This can easily
make you forget his/her wrongs and create new room for forgiveness and
acceptance. Dwell on the good and wonderful moments shared between the two of
you.
3. Forget
all the good things you have done for your partner: You have to make sure you
don't remember all the good things you have done for your partner and also, all
the efforts you have invested on the relationship. Because if you continue to
think about them, you will start feeling like this: “after all I have done for
him and after all I have invested for the relationship to work out, he/she
could do this”. Forget them completely.
4.
Be very realistic: To become realistic means you have to understand the fact
that your partner is a human and can make mistake, can disappoint and he/she is not
perfect just like you.
5.
Be balance and cross-examine your partner’s reasons: You have to forget the “what
is done” and focus on “what led to it”. I hope you understand what I really
mean.
Finally,
you have to give room for explanation and try to hold and control your
emotions. If you have problem forgiving your partner, feel free to send me an
email. I will always respond to your email anytime once I see it. It is very
important you forgive your partner easily. Kindly share this post with your
friends online.
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