Saturday
Overcoming Challenges in Relationships
(From the Law Court to the Aisle)
Relationship
is one of the hardest projects a person can write, it surpasses in complexity
the normal six-unit we all know about in our different disciplines, and it is
not the type just one man supervises. Relationship is wholly supervised by the
supernatural and the human (God and Man).
Men often applaud an imitation and frown on the real
the real thing (Aesop). A real relationship might not be so mind blowing like
the one next door but that does not make inferior.
Being in a relationship is like being in a law court
are the defendant, and the plaintiff is just looking for the smallest, invalid
clue to make you unfavorable in the eyes of the judge (your spouse) and the
people; the only difference is that you are the only one who has the power to
sustain that case as long as you want, or cut it short as you plead for mercy,
because cutting it short makes you automatically guilty but winning the case
takes you from the law court directly to the aisle. As cases are being
adjourned in court so is your relationship life adjourned; you are given the
opportunity to go back and strategize the more, check for loopholes and stand
solid once more.
Napoleon Hill says that “No accurate thinker will
judge another person by that which the enemy says about him” is a pity though
that out of 100% thinkers on earth, only 13% thinks accurately, that stands to
tell you that there is going to be stories, told by people that were told by a
person. People are going to judge you and your relationship; it’s going to hurt
much because what it means is that the law court has lost the sense of order in
its jurisdiction.
A judge is supposed to be the only one with the power
to judge but when witnesses, people, and the plaintiff stand up at the same
time to judge you, just know that this is definitely the peak of your case. Be
calm. Remember there are only two people I told you from the start who have the
right to judge you and they are God and your judge.
The third is that you are going to be disappointed,
no matter how smart you were in your relationship; you are going to be
disappointed, maybe not by him or her but surely disappointment will come, that
is why Martin Luther himself says that “There can be no deep disappointment
where there is no love”. You are going to be disappointed because you are
loved, but remember when all these storms are calmed, there is going to be no
violence, and “at the center of non-violence stands the principle of love”
(Martin Luther).
Finally,
according to Napoleon Hill “A goal is a dream with deadline” You have a goal
but you don’t have the whole time in the world and you have a deadline which
shows up once in a while, it takes you that are now wise to see it. You have to
achieve this goal before the court wins this case.
Freedom is never voluntarily given by the
oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed (Martin Luther). Now go and
demand that freedom; if possible take it by force, escape from that dock you
have been standing in from the day you agreed to date him/her; fight with your
life, remember “A man who can’t die for something is not fit to live” (Martin
Luther). Fight on, believe me, once you leave that dock, you are going straight
to your goal, to your dream, the dream you had from the first day you met
him/her, the dream you have waited so long to manifest. You know the miraculous
thing? It is no longer just a dream because you have beaten the deadline. It’s
now a reality about to be celebrated.
Once you are in your goal area, with your dreams in
your hand and a smile on your face, walk gently to him and take him straight
from the law court to the aisle. George Allen says “Every time you win you are
reborn, but whenever you lose you die a little” don’t lose in this case, win
and be reborn!
God’s Grace.
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