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Tips to Spice up your Relationship
Relationship
is a very huge task which is why experts have called on people to be both
psychologically and emotionally ready before venturing into love relationship.
Most people in relationships are really finding it difficult spicing up their
relationship as a result of many things competing for their attention at the
same time. As humans, it becomes difficult to make the best out of our
relationship and this simple factor forces most relationships to lack
excitement. The fact remains that any relationship whether marriage or long
term relationship which lacks excitement is likely going to fail! As human
beings, there is the need for us to balance both our love (emotional) needs and
physical needs if we are to live a fulfilling life here on earth.
When
a relationship lacks excitement, it is likely that one of the partners will end
up cheating on the other especially the partner at the receiving end. Lack of
excitement remains one of the leading causes of people cheating on their
partners. When a relationship lacks excitement, it simply means that the
relationship is mechanical: Nothing new is happening any more, the partners
involved no longer feel loved by each other, the partners involved feel empty,
cheated by nature, emotionally depress, less concerned about each other, no
much of commitments from both parties, lacks emotional connection, and in most
cases, the partners feel far from each other. When all these factors team up to
attack your relationship then, your relationship is likely going to suffer-
maybe now or in future. But that is if nothing is done about it.
Well,
the good news is that there are lots of things you and your partner can do to
help add sorts of excitements in your relationship. The only requirements is
that both of you must agree to work together towards spicing up the
relationship because two can't work together except there is an agreement. Make
sure you enter into an agreement with your partner before applying these tips.
Below are some interesting tips to spice up
your relationship:
1.
Laugh together:
Some
experts have argue that couples who constantly laugh together quarrel less. It
is very good for you and your partner to sit together often and laugh together.
There shouldn't be any form of formality when the both of you decide to laugh
together. Laugh as loud and free as possible whenever the opportunity comes
around. It is important I tell you that partners who always laugh together stay
together and they prosper more in their relationship as they enjoy each others’
company. Read how you can create happiness in your relationship
2.
Balance the independence and dependence
There
is the need for the both of you to make each other feel dependent on each
other. Don't make your partner feel you can easily do without him/her. There is
always the need for independence by the both of you but it should be balanced.
Some people just like to be independent of their partner in everything while
some like to be dependent of their partner in everything. The truth remains that
if the independent rate is not balanced with the dependent rate, the partners
will feel distance from each other emotionally. Also if the dependent rate is
not balanced with the independent rate, the partners will feel choked up! Make
sure the two are balanced. Read the Power of Oneness in your relationship
3. Spare
out time for each other
The
current world is filled with busy schedule. I know that and everyone knows that
too but you can always spare time for each others’ needs. One of the most
important needs in human beings remains attention. Attention is very important
in every relationship but the truth is that most relationship lacks it. All you
have to do is that you and your partner decides when the both of you will give
each other undivided attention. Make sure there is at least one to two hours of
discussion before bed time every day. Also make sure there is a special day for
full time discussion at least once every month. During these planned hours of
undivided attention, make sure the both of you make each other feel loved and most
desired. You know what I mean.
4.
Swap roles
Swapping
roles can be very interesting and will surely spice up your relationship.
Couples role swapping takes place when the two partners consciously agree to
swap roles. For example, you may decide to do all the house cores your partner
usually engage him/herself into for a specific period of time. May be you don't
usually wash the dishes, maybe it is the duty of your partner to wash dishes
while you do other house cores, you may decide to wash the dishes for two days
while your partner pick on one of your house cores and take care of them within
that period. It is always fun when couples swap roles. Make sure you try it
5. Appreciate
and compliments each other often
I
realize that most people really find it difficult appreciating and
complimenting their partner. It is really bad. Learn to say something beautiful
and adoring to your partner each day. Your relationship will benefit a lot if
you and your partner can learn how to easily and sincerely appreciate and
compliments each other every day. If your partner fetches you a cup of coffee,
kindly say ‘thank you’. No matter how small the kindness seems to you, just
appreciate him/her.
Always
tell your partner he/she is looking good. Learn to admire each other sincerely.
Don’t take telling your partner how good he/she is looking for granted. Every
day appreciations and compliments by the both of you can emotionally,
psychologically and physically energize the both of you to give in your best
for the relationship.
I
really hope these tips are sincerely applied by the both of you. These tips can
easily add excitements into your relationship and prevent a potential break up.
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