He is Impotent, Should I Still Marry Him?

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He is Impotent, Should I Still Marry Him?

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Dear Dr.Love, I have this particular problem disturbing and tormenting me ever since! I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 years now. Our relationship was based on no sex until marriage foundation. We have been coping with this and my fiancé was pleased with it. We planned getting married this year. Though we haven't fix a particular day but we were looking at December. I'm from Abia state while my fiancé is from Anambra state of Nigeria.

I recently discovered that my fiancé is impotent!! I discovered through a special doctor's report I found in his room when I visited him last week. The drama unfolded when he moved out of the apartment he was living before and the result of such relocation was his carelessness in keeping his ‘most confidential doctor’s report'. According to the report, my fiancé will not be able to impregnate any woman! I couldn't believe it that after 3 years of relationship, I'm likely going to get married to a man who is impotent. I have been crying since then. When I checked the date of the report, I saw that the report was done about 7 years ago and he could hide it from me!!

The most painful aspect of this drama is the fact that he didn't tell me about this problem ever since. I really can't continue this sad story Dr.love, please, I need your advice on this one. Should I continue with the marriage? I haven't told him yet that I have seen the report. Or should I quit the marriage plans? We both have been through a lot since the past 3 years and he is really a good guy. I love him very much. Please, help me Dr.love.

From Dr.love

My dear, I really understand your situation and I hope God assists you to make the best decision. I will tell you two things in which you can choose one. First, you said you love him and that the both of you have been through a lot together. It means you have to respect the power of true love and remember that true love really don't respect boundaries. If you are a born again Christian, go ahead and marry him as long as you love him and you're sure he loves you too then, you both can pray to God for His healing. God can heal him completely if you both have the faith.

But if you are not a born again Christian, you have no other option but to quit him. But before you take such decision, you have to ask him what led to it. If he tells you and the reason for his impotency was natural, you still have the option of marrying him because of love. Remember, you must ask him but do it when you both are in good mood.