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“My fiancé's sister is having questionable feelings for my fiancé”
Dear
Dr.love
I have
a fiancé and we really love each other but recently I started noticing
something very unusual between my fiancé and the so called girl whom he told me
is his sister. The lady in question is around 30 years old and she has been
living in the same apartment with my fiancé for over 3 years now. The problem
is whenever this girl sees me around my fiancé; she turns red and shows this
jealousy spirit for me. I just can't explain what the problem is all about but
I'm sure something is wrong somewhere. She is always making things complicated
for me and my fiancé.
She is
always wearing things that are seductive and enticing anytime she is around my fiancé.
I began to imagine why a sister would be wearing something like that in the
presence of her brother. When I started questioning my fiancé recently after I
realized that she doesn't just like me at all, he told me that the girl is not
his biological sister. Just that they are from the same village and they know
each others family. I was shocked. He told me never to worry that they see each
other as brother and sister that the lady is just trying to make sure he doesn't
fall into the wrong hands. I believed him so, I started making efforts to see
if the lady would like me.
All my
efforts didn't show any positive changes so, I began making investigations. The
truth is that I and my fiancé have been dating for a year now and I'm a student
but I recently started visiting his house. I don't used to pay him a visit. I
started visiting him from December last year and that was when I started
noticing all these. I'm very confused at the moment. I decided to call my fiancé's
youngest sister to ask her if my fiancé's mother knows about the so called
sister who is living with my fiancé for the past two years and she said no. I
started asking people who live very close to my fiancé and some people told me
that my fiancé told them that the lady is his sister but they don't see
anything that look like brother and sister relationship between them. They blatantly
told me that they suspect two of them are having sexual relationship!
When I
started acting very disturbed and stubborn about it, the lady started insulting
me and my fiancé surprisingly joined her occasionally. Please Dr.love, what
should I do now? I have come to love this guy so much. He promised he is going
to marry me! I have told him to send the lady parking and he accepted but I
still don't trust him after all these stories. I think he is hiding something
from me and who knows, he may send her parking only for them to continue their
relationship outside his apartment.
From
Dr.love
My
dear, I have gone through your story and I realized that it is obvious that your
partner brought the girl to live with him since they are from the same village
but as time goes on, they both started having sexual relationship. May be your fiancé didn't love her for real but he expressed love for her and now your man wants to settle down, the lady just don't want to feel used and dumbed. And she is
battling for what she wants to keep for life. The truth is that even if your fiancé
brings in another lady, she will still act the same way. All she wants is your fiancé
but she doesn't want to make it so obvious since there is a sister brother relationship tag already.
Now
that your fiancé has accepted to send her out of his house, forgive him and
give him another chance. People can be bad in the past and decide to live a
new life in the future so, don't condemn your fiancé because of his past. I
believe that he really wants to change since he has shown interest in sending
the girl out. I urge you to be mature and control your emotions and pray to God
because the lady may go spiritual. You know how desperate ladies of 30 years
who are still single can be…After your fiancé has sent her out, stay close to
him for some times until you are sure he is not secretly seeing her. Have a
great relationship my dear.
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