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12 Mistakes Women Make When it Comes To Sex
Story by: Michele Zipp
Source: Sheknowslove
Sex can
be one of the most amazing things in the world or the most dreaded, all
depending on your mindset. Of course there are things we worry about when we
are having sex -- like how your vagina smells, if your body is jiggling too
much, or the fear of queefing. (It's not that bad!) But there are also mistakes
we are making that can ruin the experience. I don't want to say you are doing
it wrong, but ladies, we sometimes are doing it all wrong! The first step in
righting those wrongs is to recognize them ... and make some changes.
So
let's review these 12 mistakes women make when it comes to sex and stop making
them so we can have better sex lives.
1.
Faking orgasms. Perhaps we just want our partners to feel more studly, but
faking it only means one thing: You are denying yourself your own pleasure.
Don't do it ... anymore.
2.
Putting on an act complete with porn star quality moans. Loud sex sometimes
means you're faking it, so don't bother. Just like #1, you are only denying
yourself and you're not getting any Academy Awards (or AVNs) for your
performance.
3. Not
asking for what makes us feel good. The first step in experiencing sexual
pleasure is to know what pleasures you. Ask for it. A good lover should want to
make you come -- and be willing to take the time to get you there.
4.
Being afraid to acknowledge our fantasies. You are not a nasty whore or dirty
slut for wanting that X-Rated fantasy to come true. Talk about them, think
about them, act on them.
5. Not
touching ourselves enough. Guys masturbate a lot. Most girls ... not so much.
Touch yourself when you're feeling in the mood. And don't be afraid to touch
yourself when you are having sex. If you need to show your lover how it's done,
take matters into your own hands.
6.
Having too many hang-ups. The lights have to be off. You have to have just
showered. You're afraid the cheeseburger you just ate makes your belly look
fat. You're worried about that pimple on your back. You didn't shave. Blah blah
blah! Stop worrying about all that stuff and enjoy yourself. Be in the moment.
7. Only
worrying about what feels good for him. Of course we should think about how our
lover is feeling and if he is enjoying it, but don't overdo it. Worrying too
much about him will make you not have your own pleasure and if you're not
enjoying it, he probably won't either.
8.
Forgetting about his balls. Yes, his penis is fun to play with but so are his
balls. Play around with them, too. See what he likes. He should return the
favor when it's time for him to really take care of you. You're more than just
your vaginal opening, right? He's more than just his appendage.
9.
Laying there. Why bother?
10.
Doing it when we really don't want to do it. Not into it? Just say no. Save it
for another time. But if you decide to do the nasty when you're really not in
the mood, don't do #9.
11.
Taking everything way too seriously. Laugh a little. Sex is fun -- it's even
funny sometimes. Don't let falling off the bed or an accidental fart ruin the
mood. Laugh, then get back to it.
12.
Thinking it's over when he's done. Sometimes his finish is just the beginning
of our orgasmic journey.
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