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How to ask for forgiveness from your partner

Since humans are not perfect, making mistake is allowed and forgiveness is also allowed. That is nature for you and there is nothing we can do to change that. But forgiveness does not mean acceptance. If you really desire to have a successful relationship (read 5 secrets to successful relationship), you have to strive hard to be imperfectly perfect. This means that you must cultivate trust in your relationship. (read how  to cultivate trust in relationship) Trust is what keeps us going in our love relationship and when ever that trust is hurt, it becomes extremely hard to forgive and continue with the relationship.

When you offend your partner and your partner decides to forgive you, it does not mean that your partner has accepted to continue with the relationship. But the possibility of your partner to continue with the relationship also goes a long way to do with how you pleaded for forgiveness. This is because the manner and attitude you portray at giving time you ask forgiveness counts. Are you with me?

1. Confession
You must confess of the wrongs you have done. May be your partner is already away of the offense but you still have to open up everything to him/her. This can help your partner to unconsciously start building trust with you again. He/she may not show off this trust but if the both of you continue with the relationship, that trust that you confessed everything will be the starting trust needed for the relationship to move on. Make sure you confess everything from A to Z.

2. Be real and very sincere
You have to be extremely real and completely sincere whenever you ask for forgiveness.

3. Give your partner space
Some people make the mistake of pleading for forgiveness without giving their partner space to pass through the 3 stages of forgiveness. Stay subscribed for my upcoming posts if you really want to learn about these 3 stages of forgiveness.

4.Constantly remind your partner of the past beautiful experiences.
It can be a reminder of how you love him/her, how the both of you loved and cherished each other, the future plans you both had, how you have always been there and respected hi/her etc. You know what I'm talking about? When doing this, please make sure your partner is not seeing you. It should be done through text messages, letters, emails or through someone (It could be through me….I'm willing to assist). The reason your partner should not see or hear your voice at this stage is because the messages you send may have emotional impact in him/her and he/she may develop the eagerness to see and accept you again.

5. Be patient
You have to give your partner time and while giving him/her time to decide, you also start working on yourself. It does not mean that you have to start making your partner to feel jealous but don't kill yourself in sober. Liberate your mind and give your partner times to make his/her choice.

This post took me almost a week to research and write up……..I hope it serves its purpose and help you to ask for forgiveness. You also have to avoid lot of things in order to give room for a successful relationship. True love is easily hurt and finds it difficult to allow trust to set in. This is why you have to put in lots of efforts to avoid cheating or hurting your partner who truly loves you.
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