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Creating happiness in your relationship: how to inspire your relationship
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The present world is filled with terrible and hectic headaches. These terrible and hectic world headaches is having strong negative impact in many relationships worldwide: economic crises, terrible news, hectic work, educational pursuit, bad leadership, corruption, death and so many other things which are preventing a destined successful relationship (read 5 secrets to successful relationship) from experiencing happiness. The ugly situation of the present world has made it very difficult for many people to find true love, (Read how to find true love) in fact, many people around the world no longer know the meaning of love!!!
I have come to realize that even in the mist of these terrible and worldwide headaches, someone can still create happiness in his/her love relationship. You can still experience that dream relationship you ever wanted, you can still smile, you can still be happy, you can still feel that internal passion for yourself and love life. (Try and read 5 reasons your relationship(s) is having problems)
You are the master of your own world and don't allow the external factors which no one has control over to determine your relationship or the state of your relationship. I have learnt so much in this journey of life and I have come to realize that the only thing I own to myself is to make myself happy. The same responsibility is expected of you in your love relationship. You have no other choice but to study and find out how to make your relationship experience happiness and YES you can do it!!
Why the world is having headache?
The present world is having headache because the plans for this world to come to an end must be fulfilled and there is nothing you or me can do about it. WE HAVE TO FACE THIS FACT.How to go about creating happiness in your relationship:
1. Hate the material world
I know that you may not like to hear this but that is the truth….you must be ready to hate the material world and be someone who is contended with what so ever he/she has. The taste for wealth, the taste for glory, the taste for status, the taste for satisfaction has made so many people to be heartbroken, disappointed, cried, died, emotional depression and failed relationship including marriage.
True love is lover with no condition(s) attached. It's because you want to make enough money that is why you have to stay back and world extra hours and deny that person you whisper ‘I love you’ to the opportunity of having your attention.
What has this caused us? High rate of cheating and broken marriages, wrong marriages and so on. You have to hate material world to be able to open your heart for happiness and rest of mind to come into your relationship. It is not a must that you must buy that expensive car, live in that expensive house and occupy that expensive position. Love is what you can take back to your grave. Someday, you will die and what shall you say you derived from this earth? Do you have love? Think about this reader…..
2. Recreate your world by having control over your mind
Yes, you can have control over your mind and when you are able to do this, you will have the ability to recreate your own world. When stress comes calling, all you have to do is to force your mind from thinking about it, think about nature, think about the universe, think about how you came to life, think about how you have made some choices. You know what I'm saying? Simply put: change the direction and speed of your thoughts.
There is no need pondering over that terrible incident. You know that when you are happy, your relationship will also be happy. Say to yourself you are going to be happy, hit your chest and scream it loud that you are the master of your own world and that you are going to make your relationship work out and be happy.
3. Spend time and give it all
Spend time with your love one and give your relationship the best of your efforts. Do you know why you have to do this? It’s because your partner is the only one who is likely going stay with you till you die. For example, married partners will love and cherish their children and at the end, their children will find love and move on with their own lives.
That person you got married to is the only person who will remain with you. A time will come when you won't see your mother, father and children but will always see your partner. Don't allow anything to deny you of the love, attention, caring and effort you own to your relationship.
This is not a book, it is just a post….I don't have much space to write all that I have to offer here. I hope you have gained much from this. Creating happiness or inspiring your relationship all can come through you: if you are happy and can make your partner happy then, your relationship will be happy too. This advice can work best for those who have found true love.
Make your happiness and that of your partner your biggest priority and know that all the material things and glory of this world is vanity upon vanity!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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