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12 things to do to deliver your self from jealousy

Too much of jealousy in your relationship can be killing and choking. The fact remains that jealousy must exist in any love relationship. If our Creator can tell us not to cheat on Him by worshiping other gods simply because ‘He is a jealous God’ as the bible puts it then, jealousy is part of true love  (read how to find true love and your perfect match)and part of human existence. But the issue is that too much of it is really bad!!! Gosh…it's really a bad idea.
The fact remains that if your partner doesn't show a reasonable degree of jealousy in the relationship then, he/she does not really love or care about you. When someone loves you, your actions affect him/her directly and indirectly so, don't listen to those relationship experts who will tell you that if your partner loves you, he/she shouldn't feel jealous about your actions especially those related to hanging out with the opposite sex, things you are doing, staying late outside home, your chat and company etc (read signs of true love). The only issue is that jealousy shouldn't be too much at all or else, you will be hunted by it and may end up killing yourself.....read on to find out how you can cure your self of jealousy

Don't feel bad about yourself if you feel jealous sometimes…it’s your right my dear…don't hate yourself because you can't help it. The best you can do in this situation is to reduce it and jealousy will stop hunting and tormenting you:
A. If you are always suspecting that your partner is cheating on you whenever he/she is not with you
B. If you are hardly satisfied with your partner's efforts
C. If you are always invading your partner's privacy without his/her permission
D. If you are dominated by fear of losing your partner to someone else
E. If you are always following your partner about
F. If you are too scared of your partner having opposite sex contacts

If 4 out of the 6 above attributes applies to you then, you are really hunted by the spirit of jealousy and only you can deliver yourself. If all applies to you then, you have lots of work to do to deliver yourself and you also need my support before you can be completely delivered. Visit my services page and find out more on how I can help you out
1. Trust your partner with all your heart
Every relationship needs trust to move on. You have to freely trust your partner in order to reduce the level of jealousy hunts you....(read how to cultivate trust in your relationship)

2. Be proud of who you are
You have to be very proud of who you are in and make your partner know that you are proud of who you are.
3. Completely eliminate fear of losing your partner
You really need to defeat your fear, face it and make sure you have control over your thoughts in order to rule your physical world. You have to make your partner know that you don't have relationship fear.. (read how to defeat fear in your relationship and how to secure your man from dumping you for another woman)

4. Allow your partner do some things which you fear most
This will make you programme your mind to be ready for the worst which is break up.

5. Engage in your hubbies often
This really helps a lot because it will make you forget your worries…try and have some few independent hubbies outside of your partner's own.

6. Love and appreciate the gifts and wonders of nature
If you can love and appreciate nature, it will help free you from any internal torment you many be passing through because your mind will be diverted to amazing wonders of nature.

7. Study and understand your partner
Some partners can help you out if you are this jealous type while a lot of partners don't really care and all they do is complain about your jealous nature. If your partner belongs to the second type of people then, you have to reduce your level of intimacy with him/her and act like you careless about his/her characters and actions. (read how to build understanding in your relationship)

8. Read books
Make sure you read books especially those types of books you really don't like reading.

9. Exercise your brain
This means that you have to task your brain often with puzzles, quiz, essays etc.

10. Watch movies
Yeah, make sure you watch movies every week if you aren't too busy.

11. Engage yourself
Try and be very busy with your self

12. Don't ever hit back at your partner
Don't ever hit back at your partner at all. It doesn't help out, only aggravates the hunts.

Jealousy is not a crime but too much of jealousy is very bad not only to your relationship but to your health and emotional state. Follow these steps and you are sure to be delivered of jealousy.
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