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10 ways to make your relationship work
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If you really want to make your relationship work then, you must read this article to the last word. This article came after my personal observations, chatting with people, studying why relationship fails and why many relationships are having problems. As I said before in one of my articles here, there is nothing wrong with love, the problems humans suffer all in the name of love is as a result of our imperfect nature.
True love is a gift from God almighty and as long as God is perfect then, true love is perfect. Many people
have lost relationships that are really worth it simply because they have failed to take some of these steps, they have failed to look into their lives. Love gives you joy, it's like water which we humans seek endlessly. This is why nothing can replace love, not even money. My wonderful readers, no matter what you are passing through now, give your relationship another chance by following these easy steps to see if your relationship can work:
You can also read:
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1. The both of you must not be masters
This is one of the main fact about relationship: there is no way the both of you can be masters at the same time in the relationship. One of you must be like the servant in order to make your relationship work. I know you have heard that two captains can never captain a ship. Strive and bend down for your partner in order to make your relationship work. I'm not suggesting you to be a slave or a servant but the both of can't be equal in the real sense: one of you must drive while the other support. This is the guiding principle of any relationship that really want to work.
2. You must be foolish some times
There is no need claiming right all the time…there is no way you can be right and perfect all the time. The nature of human demands that we sometimes act foolish in order to make your relationship work. Take for instance, you and your partner may have disagreement and you know for sure that you are innocent…in order to be foolish sometimes, you can decide to be the cause of the problem and apologize to make the relationship work and move on. The best way to heal your self is to accept responsibilities.
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3. ‘I love you’ must be said countlessly
Have you ever looked straight into the eyes of your partner when you both are having serious quarrel and say ‘I love you’? seriously speaking, ‘I love you’ is like a milk in the inner soul of human beings. Make sure you say these three words as often as possible to your partner even in your saddest moments. It really works magic.
4. Compromise some of your personal interests
Any relationship that lacks major compromise is bound to fail in the long run. We humans really lack the ability to compromise our personal interest for the sake of our relationships to work out. For instance, you mustn't watch that your favorites TV programmes, you mustn't go to the gym all the time as you so wish.
5. Make sure you pray to your own master
How many times do you really put your relationship and partner to prayers? Pray to your God in any religion you find yourself. My own God is Jehovah and I pray to Him alone so, you too pray and commit your relationship to your own master.
6. Reflect in the past regularly
Every relationship has a day it all started to the present moment you are reading this piece. You can be the sole initiator of this idea by always reflecting on how the both of you met and the most romantic moments of your relationship. Put the dates down on your diary and often reflect and discuss about it, how you felt, what you like most about the each of these moments etc.
7. Communicate often with your partner
Seriously speaking, there is the need for effective relationship communication between you and your partner. You can always do this by going to very quiet places and you too can talk out issues disturbing your relationship. Seriously speaking, learn to be gentle.
8. Rate your relationship first among all
You have to love your relationship with your whole heart and show full commitment. Some people really love their career, profession, self etc more than their relationship. Your partner is your love and your relationship binds you both together. show full time commitment to your relationship.
9. Read relationship advice articles together
Are you a subscriber to my blog? Try and involve your partner too. Bring your partner into some of the relationship blogs you are subscribed to and the both of you can read the wonderful ideas together. This brings forth togetherness which is very important in making your relationship work.
10. Socialize often
Please and please, don't ever allow the busy nature of the present world make you and your partner to socially be separated. Try to engage in one social gathering or the other with your partner at least, once or twice a week. You mustn't have much money to do this: it could be a local foot ball match, music concert, special church programmes etc.
I hope these 10 ways to make your relationship work out are helpful…try and share this post with your friends and hit the ‘like’ button. Thanks for visiting my site. Tags: love relationship
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