Saturday
Sex in true love
This
world does not have any stipulated format for anything to take effect. I
recently heard of a story by an aunt of mine who is about 10 years married now.
According to her, there was this girl and her boy friend who were in the same
class as when they were in the university. They started dating from their first
year and the girl spend most of her time in the guy's room because the guy was
living off- campus. They were having sex full time and people really condemned
them and was telling her that the guy will dumb her after school when he is
done tasting her sexual part. But that was not the case as they both graduated
and continued dating and a year after their youth service they got married and
9 years later, they are very happy with each other. According to my aunt, they
already have 2 babies and the fun and crazy passion they had for each other is
still blowing wide!
I was surprised after I heard such story. She
was now telling me that she married her husband and they were not into sex
relationship before marriage but she can not tell me with all assurance that she
is a very happy married lady. She told me that she thought her husband able to wait for her for almost 4 years before they got married and started having sex means he was going to be a great husband. She confided in me by telling me that may be could have been a happier married lady if she didn't quit her two years relationship with her first love who was disturbing her for sex after two years of dating.
It is not about sex before marriage or sex
after marriage. One thing I know for sure is that virginity does not mean that
a lady will make you a good wife and a guy not having sex with you does not
mean that he will make a good husband. There are non virgin girls who turned
out to be good wives and players who turned out to be best husbands. Sex before
marriage is a religious issue and not a measurement for determinant of TRUE
LOVE. That a guy insisted you must sleep with him does not mean that he does
not love you or that he loves you neither does it mean that he will not make a good
husband or will make a good husband.
That a lady said you should wait after marriage
before you start having sex with her does not mean that she will make a good wife or will not
neither does it mean that she does not love you or she loves you.
True love does not have any measurement at
all, those who really love are those who measure not. Love is a risk. Entrepreneurs go into business that have risks but they mind not. If you must love for real then, you should be able to go into love without minding the risks.
For instance, some ladies will say: "if
he loves me, he should wait till after marriage before sex" and may the
particular guy wants sex and because if he does have sex with her or with
another person, the lady will conclude that he doesn't love her then, he
continue to surfer and die in silence! Any lady who makes such comment should
also consider the other way round: "If you love me, you should sleep with
me" How will you feel if a guy says such?
I think love is when the right people with the
same ideology finds love. Some girls believe in having sex with anyone who they
have tested his love and his love is quite reasonable while some don't offer
sex at all until marriage. Guys should go into relationship with girls who have the same
ideology with them. Some guys really don't mind about sex but if you're dating
a LIBRAN, bear it mind that he will definitely love to have sexual relationship
together with his commitment except holy spirit dwells in him.
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