Tuesday
Steps to take before going into relationship/marriage
Some relationships/marriages collapse
simply because the two people involved didn't go through these very important
steps. The results of not taking these steps before marriage/relationship is
usually a heartbreak or broken home.
Most of my readers who email me
about one certain problem or the other in their marriages/relationships didn't
pass through these steps everyone must take before going into
marriage/relationship. In relationship/marriage, it is 80% wisdom/talking and
20% prayers. If you and your partner didn't do the right thing, it will be very
difficult to avoid the consequences of not taking these steps before your
relationship/marriage! What then are these steps?
1. Testing of vision
This step is very important and must
be undertaken by any two people who want to go into relationship or get
married. Testing vision means that the two of you will test each other's long
and short term vision and if they don't look alike or the same, you both better
call it a quit! The only way out is if one of you is ready to give up his/her
vision in order to work with the person's vision.
For instance, I you are having this
vision of becoming a great presenter who will be working with some of the
greatest media houses on earth, which means that you will be a celebrity and
your partner just want a small quiet life with no paparazzi then, there is a
very big problem coming. The bible made us to understand that two people can't
work together except they agree. The testing of vision is a step that requires
gradual procedures before concluding.
2.
Partner compatibility test
The partner compatibility test tends
to find out if you both are very compatible. I don't mean if you both are a
little bit compatible but very compatible. For instance, if your partner wants
a house wife who will stay and take care of the house while is working and you
are the type of lady who wants to work then, there is big problem coming on the
way. Another example is if your partner is a very social type of person and you
are not then, there is compatibility problem and to avoid a likely future
heartbreak or broken home, the both of you should quit!
I still have some other steps which
you must take before going into marriage/relationship but as a result of space,
I can't include them all here but be assured that I will publish the remaining
steps very soon. Please, try and make sure the above steps are seriously
considered and reconsidered by you and your partner before you both embark on the
marriage journey. These steps are also very applicable to people who are into
serious relationship heading into marriage. Please, kindly share my post with
your friends online.
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