Thursday
How to fall in love again
Greetings my wonderful reader, hope you're doing great. Today, I
will like to teach you how you can easily fall in love again even after a
catastrophic heart break. I have met many people who confide in me that they
just aren’t going to try loving again…Their major reason is simply because
someone they trusted so much broke their heart but the truth is that you can
learn to fall in love again and even love right and be happy after. It is all
about your mind set. Below are tips on how you can easily fall in love again:
1. Understand the facts about love and relationship
There was a post I did sometimes in the past and I titled it facts about relationship which you must know. It is a must read post. I made it clear
that love does not last forever. It is important you understand that the
relationship you found yourself had no tag of lasting forever. Once you clear
your mind on this, you can begin to apply the next tip. Which is:
2. Getting over your ex..
It is very important you get over your ex…wait a minute, you may be
arguing with me that you don’t have your ex at heart anymore…no way, if you are
finding it difficult to fall in love again because of a major heart break then,
you are yet to get over your ex. As long as your ex is still right inside your
heart, you will never find love or fall in love again. Read How to get over your ex !!
3. Forgiveness
Forgiveness comes in two forms. The first one is forgiving yourself
and the second one is forgiving that person that matters (it may be your ex and sometimes some people who offended you). Sometimes we just
can’t believe we did all that nasty things in our past relationship(s), or we
just can’t believe we could be that free, cheap, selfless etc with that special
person and as a result, we find it difficult to forgive our self. Hay, you have
to forgive yourself. Remember, you are not the first person to have done those
things and you will never be the last so forgive yourself and feel free inside.
The next step is forgiving others. It is very important you learn
to forgive and forget. Develop such mentality of easily forgiving others too. I
do that and I strongly believe it is healthy too. Forgiveness tends to attract
love to your life. (Read How to forgive your partner and How to ask your partner for forgiveness)
4. Find out why the heart break(s)
Finding the real causes of your previous failed relationship is
very important than any other thing. If you don’t find out the real causes, you
may continually fall a victim of heart break which may strongly prevent you
from falling in love again.
5. Open your heart to take risks
Okay, lets be straight, there is no way you can find that special
one by sitting in your room all day long, or by staying in office all day long.
May be your case is that about hating or disliking anything opposite sex. You
aren’t doing yourself any good at all by doing so. You should be ready to take
risks. Remember that love is a risk and life is also a risk and if you don’t
take risks, you may never meet someone special. I strongly recommend that if
you are not in a relationship, try and move out to meet people but before you
do that, read how to find your perfect match and how to find true love. These
two posts are very important because I extensively spoke about finding what
matches you. Stop being afraid of heartbreak, it will never help you. Remember,
love is a birth right.
5. Search yourself
Seriously, there is the need to apply the principle of: “man know
thy self”. Find out who you are and where you are heading to, find out what
constitutes you, your believe system, your ideology, you concepts, you likes
and dislikes, etc. Just everything about you. From finding out very important
things about yourself, you may be motivated to open your heart to fall in love
again. (Read why you aren't finding true love)
I hope this post was helpful…I hope you can fall in love again. How
to fall in love again is still part of True Love blog’s posts, kindly comment,
LIKE, and share this post in order to help promote it. Thanks for reading. remember, no matter the number of times you have been heart broken, it can be fixed by you falling in love again.
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