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Qualities You Should Look out in Your Man
Qualities You Should Look out in Your Man
Silent qualities you should look out in your prospective man
I have
posts written on qualities women seek in men and I also wrote on qualities Dr.Love seek in women. But sometimes, ladies really don’t know the qualities they
really want in a man. I’m sure you have heard
this believe that “bad boys get the nicest of ladies”. I recently read a
post titled the biology behind why women fall for “bad boys” It happens like
that sometimes. But according to that post, most women who end up falling for bad guys only end up heart broken. There was a post I also wrote sometimes ago titled: Reasons women are always heart broken, you can also check it out. I realize that most
ladies always make certain mistakes when searching through the qualities of their prospective
men. Okay, I have also stated it that men can pretend so badly in order to get
you and sometime imbibe those obvious qualities women seek in men. In the nature of a man’s pretense, there are certain things I assume they are
likely not going to exhibit to you. Below are some of the critical qualities
you should expect from your man:
1. He
must pass the test of keeping to his words
Don’t over look this quality in any man you are considering accepting in your life. The bad boys can easily put on the usual qualities women seek in men but most of them lack this tangible quality of keeping to words or promises. I know no body is God to always keep to his/her words but there are certain level of promises and words someone needs to keep in order for others to see him/her as someone who keeps to his/her words or promises.
Don’t over look this quality in any man you are considering accepting in your life. The bad boys can easily put on the usual qualities women seek in men but most of them lack this tangible quality of keeping to words or promises. I know no body is God to always keep to his/her words but there are certain level of promises and words someone needs to keep in order for others to see him/her as someone who keeps to his/her words or promises.
2. Gifts
he buys for you
Very
important is this quality. Now, I know that one of the qualities women seek in
men is ability to buy gifts. Yeah, it is very important but beyond that gift
buying quality, there is something even more important: what kind of gifts does
he buy for you? Okay, men also are aware of this all important expectation of
buying ladies gifts and as a result, most of them have capitalized on it but
most bad guys don’t really buy ladies what they need or lack. The real man will
not only buy you gifts, he will study you periodically to know what you lack
and even get it for you before you ask.
The real
man will not buy you the gift because he wants to win your heart but he feels
that you need that stuff and as a result of the love he has for you, he goes
out his way to buy it. Remember that it is not always the cost of the gift that
matters but the manner of presentation and the worth of such gift. Worth is
determined based on needy state of the receiver of such gift. (I hope you understand the logic).
3. His apologies
Yeah, it
is important to look at how your man carries his ego. I once updated on my
facebook timeline that “apologies sometimes don’t mean I’m wrong, it sometimes
means that I value my relationship than my ego”. Most bad boys don’t like to
apologize but when a man loves you for real, he can always forget that all
important ego just to apologize for his wrongs or simply for peace to come in
the relationship.
4. How
he handles relationship conflicts
The real
men knows how to handle relationship conflicts. If you have a man who can
always strive hard to manage the relationship conflicts then, you are on the
right track. Don’t forget that one fact about relationships is that problems
must come in and what really matters is how it is managed and your man has a
great role to play as the captain of the ship. Please, never under look this quality, it can determine how well your relationship will drive.
I hope
this post goes a long way to help you know some of the silent qualities you should look out in your man. These
qualities are silent but are extremely important and you must consider them
after considering the obvious qualities women seek in men. Because these
qualities will help you separate the bad guys from the good guys. Don’t forget
that the good guys have come to stay. Kindly share, LIKE and/or comment on this post...
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