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How to break up with someone without hurting the person much !
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Breaking up
sometimes, break up becomes inevitable
Dr.love
Breaking up can be very difficult to
handle especially when you really love the person. Love has a way of making you
feel weak to do something which ordinarily you would have done without thinking twice.This may be
as a result of the fear that the person whom you’re going to break up with will
be highly hurt. There are reasons people want to break up with their partner.
It may be because of lack of Compatibility, unrealizable dreams and hopes,
vision from a religious leader etc. (Read up: Compatibility and Love)
Whichever one, you may be reading this post because you want or desire to break up with your partner but the problem is that you’re scared of hurting him/her. Below are 2 ideas I came up with which can help you break up with your partner without hurting him/her that much:
Whichever one, you may be reading this post because you want or desire to break up with your partner but the problem is that you’re scared of hurting him/her. Below are 2 ideas I came up with which can help you break up with your partner without hurting him/her that much:
1. Talk about a likely break up from the
angle of nothing can last forever:
You can come from the angle of telling
your partner that two people may never see through their chosen relationship as
a result of uncontrollable circumstances but whichever way, if you both ever
didn’t make it to the end, you will never regret or even forget him/her.
Gradually insert this kind of statement inside of him/her. This will make your partner to start considering the possibility of a future break up and may make him or her to prepare for it. You should do this with care and smartness.
Gradually insert this kind of statement inside of him/her. This will make your partner to start considering the possibility of a future break up and may make him or her to prepare for it. You should do this with care and smartness.
2: Gradually distant yourself from your
partner:
Gradually, you can start the distance
game. Reduce how you call the person, always varnish from the person’s reach,
reduce how you see and interact with the person. With these two ideas, you don’t
need to cause someone’s heart to fall out! Don’t make it so obvious. Gradually,
the person may start seeing the reality of a possible break up. With time, the
person may just feel like break up had already taken place.
At the end of these two ideas on how to
break up with your partner without hurting him/her that much, he /she may
really get to understand the whole scenario more. The two ideas will make it
possible for memories concerning you and your partner to gradually delete. I
hope you gained something from this post. Kindly share and like the post with
your friends. Before you break up with your partner, I advice you read up: 5 Reasons you don't have to break up with your partner.
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