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Reasons women cheat on their partner
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Why women cheat in relationship
A cheating woman can cheat for many centuries without been caught
Dr.love
when a woman cheats in her relationship
Women also cheat big time. There is this
believe that only men cheat but the real truth is that women cheat almost as
much as men cheat! The fact is that reasons women cheat are not all that
similar to the reasons men cheat in relationship. Unlike the time I wrote on
why men cheat in relationship 2, I'm only going to discuss the responses I got from 15 women before I
started writing this post. Most of the women talked to me through online chat
and I met some face-to-face. I’m only sampling 15 of the women I spoke with because
among all the women I spoke to, only 15 admitted to have cheated several times
before or are still cheating on their partner till date!
Don’t be shocked that I couldn’t get as
much women to confide in me as men did on the issue of cheating. Remember that
women operate in secrecy. That is why a woman may cheat all her life and you
will never know. A woman may cheat and bear children for another man yet her
real husband may never find out till death visits! That’s women for you.
I
appreciate those who opened up to me. Bear in mind that there are varieties of
reasons for a woman to cheat in her relationship, below are the reasons those those women told me about. Ranked base on number of times the ladies mentioned it:
1. Emotional lost and reconnection:
In fact, all the ladies who admitted to
have cheated or are cheating in their various relationships really admitted to
have committed it because of emotional disconnection with their original lover.
What I realize is that when a lady get disconnected emotionally from her lover,
she becomes very open and easy to capture once a Casanova comes around. This is
because women are always looking for emotional security and anyone who can
offer that to them can lay them if he plans for that though it might not be
easy. But it is easier to have sex with a woman who lost emotional connection
with her original lover than with a woman who is not in a relationship.
This is
because everything she sees in the new partner will look like a perfect heaven for her stay. She
easily compares the treatments she is getting from the new guy with that she
gets from her original man. At that state, she becomes confuse and becomes
vulnerable to cheat sexually only if the new guy can initiate it.
Women, in their bid for emotional
reconnection may find themselves cheating on their real partner. One of the
ladies even said thus: “I realized that we have both lost connection
emotionally, we were empty and I needed that assurance from someone but it wasn’t
coming from my man. Fortunately and unfortunately, I received what I was
looking for from another man whom seemed perfect for me but…” From this lady’s
words, you will understand that most ladies are seeking for emotional security
at most moments of their lives.
2. Lack of sexual satisfaction:
At least half of the ladies I discussed
with said that they cheated because they weren’t getting sexual satisfaction
from their original partners. Women want sexual satisfaction more than
anything. It can frustrate any lady if she doesn’t get sexual satisfaction from
the person she loves.
The problem here is that the road to a woman’s sexual
satisfaction is complicated and tasking while the road to a man’s sexual
satisfaction is quite easy and less tasking so, majority of men are easily
carried away by this and turn out to be sexually selfish: they forget that they
are two in the act and not just one. They forget that they have to take care of
the lady first sexually before coming down to themselves. They forget that the
lady must be highly wet and almost at her orgasm level before his insertion. When
they forget all these and the lady continues to bear them for a very long
period and suddenly experience these wonders of sexual satisfaction, she may
never return from that journey again.
It becomes easier for a lady to cheat on
her partner if she maybe experienced these wonders of sexual orgasm before in
her previous relationships but not getting it in her present relationship:
heaven will fall if she doesn’t cheat. Only God can prevent her from doing so.
Majority of women suffer from this and if a woman by chance meets any guy who
can spend the time and the patience to try her various body parts, kiss and
touch her sensitive body parts, her most hidden sexual areas, who can put her
orgasm first before his, she will surely run away from her real partner (that
is if the person is not her real partner). The only problem is that most of the
ladies don’t talk about their sexual frustration. Most time, at a time when a
man is getting sexual satisfaction during sex is when a lady is starting her fun!!!!
I have to stop this post here at this
moment. Sorry for the lengthy post. I may likely continue on the rest of the
reasons women cheat in their relationship but kindly share this post with your
friends, LIKE it and comment if you wish. Remember once a woman start cheating,
she may never return from that journey. Don't forget to read up Cheating in Relationship in order to find out the various types of cheating that exists.
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