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Number one first date mistake most people make: avoid it
First
date is becoming very popular these days because of social factors. Social
factors I’m talking about here happen to be any form of socialization such as
the ever growing social media, increase in schools etc. The number one source
of first date is now through the social networking sites such as facebook. (Go
read my article on how to find love on facebook). First date is always filled
with actions that can destroy the possibility of another date between you and
the other person.
First
date does not mean that you have never been to a date before but what it means
is that it is the first time you will be going on a date with that particular
new catch! I have been to several first dates just to get the experience and
write something for you my reader. I have discovered that there is this number
one mistake most people make during first date ( advice you read up: How to make your first date impression long lasting). This
mistake has cost so many people the chance for another date including me. So,
what could this number one mistake on the first date be?
Number one mistake on first date which you must avoid
All
about yourself!
Aha, I’m
sure you are familiar with what I’m talking about right? Many people go on a
first date with excessive confidence and end up talking all about
themselves. I know that the ability to
listen very well is a growing problem among young people these days but as long
as your first date is concern, you have to learn how to listen to your date
too. Don’t bore your date with topics related to you and your family
excessively, hay, who cares about them that much?
There
should always be intervals where you allow your date to contribute about
him/her self. Talking all about you does not mean that you didn’t allow your date
to talk. That is where many people get it wrong! Talking about you too much
happens more when you concentrate on yourself for too long! Do you now get the
picture clear?
Some people
start off the first date discussion with everything about themselves and in the next five to 10 minutes, they are still talking about “I”, “I”, “I” and “I”.
This is bad. Take one step at a time: when you say something about yourself,
one or two minutes for that particular issue about yourself is okay for that
time then, you allow your date to talk too before you pick on another topic /issue
to continue. (I advice you read: First time date tips for you)
Another
thing you should know here is that when you talk too much about yourself for
too long without intervals, you paint the picture of a very proud person. Sure,
it is alright if you’re proud of yourself but don’t let it become excess on the
first date. This is because people generally have negative impression about the
word pride.
You
have to limit the number of topics related to your family while you
communicate with your date. The date is not about your family, it is about the
two of you.
I hope
you have got it clear now about the number one mistake most people make on the
first date. Kindly avoid this particular mistake on your first date so that you
may have another chance for the second date. Kindly share this article with your
friends online.
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