Monday
Sex in your relationship
I decided to offer this particular love
advice simply because of the rate at which people ask questions about
it on my email. Sex has caused lots of problems in growing relationships
especially those before marriage. It has made relationships painful because one
of the worst things that can happen to you as a person is being denied of sex
when the pressures comes calling hard. It has led to rape, break ups, divorce,
masturbation, frustration, emotional regrets, increase in HIV AIDS, etc. So
many things that I can mention that the denier of sexual pleasure have led to.
The question now is what is the way out?
Since this blog is on love advice, I advise
that birds of the same feathers flock together. I don’t know if you understood
me. Well, read on. Men are always the people who suffer this the more because
their desire for sex starts earlier than women and they make theirs too known
to their partners than women do. You see, there is no need dating someone who
will never offer you sex such as those who have religious believes except you
don’t want it too. Some people who find it sinful having sex before marriage
can still allow other things such as kissing, body touching while some don’t. I
think it is worst for any one going out with those in who don’t allow anything
at all except you too don’t want them as well.
If you force anyone who don’t wish to have sex
before marriage to have sex, you may likely lose the person, so, the best thing
is try and never go into relationship with them not even friendship because you
may be hurt emotionally. Another way is you try and avoid spending time with
the person alone but I wonder what will become of that relationship. This is
why most religious believers advise short courtship then marriage because of
the pressure to satisfy emotions.
Some ladies are afraid of giving out their sexual
body out to their partner simply because they feel that after having sex, he
will run away. I have seen many true lovers who had sex many, many times and
still ended up marrying each other. The truth is that someone who loves you
will even love you the more if sex is involved. This is because sex is very
powerful and binds two lovers together forever. Those who leaves you after sex
never loved you and if you are careful will identify them on time (please check
my post on qualities of true love and series on characteristics of true love)
Now, there is what is called happy sex life. This means that your married
partner should be able to make you have a happy sex life and you also do the
same. Now, how do you know if you both will make a happy married sex life if
there were no sex before the marriage? It should come first and if there are
areas of adjustments, it can be taking care of before the main business. I’m
not in support of sex before marriage neither am I against it, I’m just being
objective because, lot of people have complained about this to me. It is a big
problem, believe me!
The fact is that true love and religion are not
together but they can be combined but very difficult to. The best is to flock
with the same set of birds to avoid yourself of emotional pains. I have seen
serious believers in one religious faith or the other who have serious problems
in their marriage and even broke up and I have seen those who had happy
marriage life. I have also seen those who never believed or practiced any form
of religious faith and yet had happy marriage life starting from dating to
courtship then to marriage and those who didn’t. The issue is true love but God
can help you find one. The truth is that you may never enjoy your relationship
including marriage if you carry religious issues on your head! Sex is very
important to relationship.
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relationship and sex advice
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