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Building a strong relationship base on trust

Trust is very important and necessary in your relationship. Most times, we enter into a relationship with lack of trust being a major problem and a hindrance to the success of the relationship. We are all humans, it is true that we are humans and because of this natural factor, we always have the problem of trusting someone even if the person is the person we love so much and want to spend our entire life with the person. The truth still remain that you need trust in your relationship to succeed and there are no two ways about it. Sometimes, I compare TRUST with FAITH and find out that they almost seem alike. To trust someone means that you have to believe the person whether the person is saying the truth or lying to you, as long as there is no concrete evidence, you just have to believe that person, furthermore, to have faith, is all about you believing something you are not seeing nor have any evidence that it will happen. Can you see that the both are somehow inter-related? Trust is what you need for a strong and healthy relationship, no matter how you feel about an issue; you have no right
 not to believe your partner except you have very concrete evidence to disproof him or her.

Truth about building Trust in the relationship
Believe me, you and your partner must start to build trust from the beginning of the relationship. This will help make the relationship stronger at the long run. Trust is very needed in long time relationship, distance relationship and even ordinary dating. You and your partner cannot just start building trust at the middle of the relationship and expect things to be well and smooth. Another point or fact about TRUST is that it not easy to build and takes long time to mature and almost 75% of the relationship in the world lack or is struggling to build trust. Marriages are suffering today, simply because there is no trust. But come to think of it, trust comes out of within you and what you have seen your partner do that can make you vow that he/she can never do certain things or can do certain things. There must be evidence to build and develop trust in a relationship.
How to build TRUST in the relationship
Start as friends
I have come to realize that majority of the relationship that are enjoying the reward of trust, all started as friends. When you and your partner start as friends, you both will learn to accept each other, learn who each really is, know each other very well, know what each other can do and what each other cannot do at a particular situation etc. Relationship that never had the foundation of friendship is likely going to have several problems. I advise you to start your long term relationship as true friends and watch how trust will elevate your relationship.
Be open minded towards your partner
You have to be open minded: you have to be free with your partner at the beginning of the relationship. Relationship is divided into stages and at the first stage; you have to be free minded towards you partner and accept him/her the way he/she appears to you. With this mindset, you can easily believe your partner and build the very necessary trust in the relationship.
Keep to your promises
If you promised anything to your partner, try and keep to it, no matter how small it may look. Take for instance, if you promised your partner that you are going to come back at a particular hour, try and make sure you come back at that hour but if anything goes wrong, you have to inform him/her. This is where communication comes into place in building trust in the relationship

Communicate effectively 
The world we live presently is surrounded by several means one can use to communicate to someone effortlessly. Make use of instant messages and communicate to your partner if there is a change of plan. If you can form this particular habit, your partner will definitely learn to trust you.
Don't forget to always re-assure your partner of your commitment to the relationship
This is very important and has proven to help in building trust in the relationship. If you are fond of assuring and re-assuring your partner that you will always be with him/her and that you will always love and adore him/her, the trust will help build trust in the relationship. All you have to do is always assure your partner of your serious and sincere commitment to the relationship and this commitment should be supported with your actions and words.
Finally, with formidable TRUST in the relationship, you and your partner will definitely have a well, smooth and healthy relationship that is very strong.

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