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10 Signs that your man is just using you

The recent questions most of my readers are seeking answers to are ‘Please, Drlove, are there signs to show that my man is just using me? what are the signs that my boyfriend is just using me? Please, I want to know if my man is just using me? It is quite unfortunate that humans can never tell the plans of the fellow human(s) and this fact is also applicable in love relationship (Also read,You Desperately need this Relationship advice) . Ladies have to be very careful when dealing with men. A man can pretend to love you for years just to get all he wanted and you may be unfortunate not to find out on time until he gives you RED CARD!!!! This is simply because men are not controlled emotional, they are controlled by what they see (physical attraction). Well, Drlove is here to give you signs that your man is just using you:
1. He only calls you when he misses you or needs your company. (This is what Drlove calls communication selfishness. Read Lack of Communication in Relationships )
2. He makes too much of promises and fulfils little portion of it

3. He is not really touched by your tears
4. He always demands for physical attraction especially sex and tends to turn you into a sex machine practicing device. This will always go contrarily to your emotional needs such as romantic words, being romantic, attention etc.
5. He lives immediately after having sex with you. He only comes back when his man hood needs sort of release. (take note: a man who is keen to deceiving you will play this part very smartly and you may never know so, be very observant)

6. He hardly talks about spending the rest of his life with you or even when he is saying it, you will notice this deception in him. (be very observant to notice this, don’t be carried away by his promises)
7. He only says sweet things or romantic things to you when he wants to get something from you.
8. He doesn’t stop doing those things you have complained of. (please, make sure that your complains are reasonable)
9. He always have a very smart way of penetrating into your heart whenever he does those things you have complained about though he promised the last time he did it that he will never do it again.
10. You give him sex, give him romance and try your best for his satisfaction but he is still cheating. Your man doesn’t have any excuse for cheating on as long as you give him sex. I may understand for guys whose girlfriends/fiancées don’t offer sex.
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