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Why men cheat in relationship
Cheating men....
why do men cheat in Relationships?
Cheating in relationship can be annoying, frustrating, and counter-productive
as long as the success of that relationship is concerned. Most people
believe that men cheat more than women but it is left for you to decide
if men really cheat more than women. As for me, I don’t have any
fact to show that men cheat more than women neither do I have any fact
to show that women cheat more than men. And I still believe that no one
has the real fact to proof the actual degree of cheating among men
and women. Because to ascertain the actual level of cheating in relationship,
one must at least carry out a survey research covering more than half of the
world’s population. (Remember, there was a post guest wrote sometimes ago titled: why partners cheat in relationships) Well, that’s gist for another day, what
inspired this post is to find out why men cheat in relationships and I
will also try to write on why women cheat too. This post was written
after I asked about 50 married men why they cheat and 30 men who
are in one serious relationship or the other on why they also cheat. You
know one thing that got me shocked about these men: they have all cheated
before or are currently cheating, they all admitted cheating as
part of them! The following are the points they all made after considering
why men cheat in love relationships:
1.
Sexual satisfaction and adventure: This top the list of all the reasons the men
I asked cheat or cheated in their relationships. According to them, they want
to experience sexual adventure and satisfaction. It is also believed that men
finds it difficult sharing their sexual adventure ideas with their committed
partners so, the need for them to go outside to get all the sexual adventure
experienced develops. Remember, sexual cheating is one of the leading types of
cheating in relationships. You know what: your man really wants to experience
those hot, hot styles he saw on movies, or he heard about and you are too
formal for him to tell you about it, or you are too busy for him to try such
ideas or you may see him as a sexual extremist etc, you leave him with no
option but to go get it outside with those young girls who also want to experience
such life style or who are also shy from sharing such ideas with their
committed partners. Men are too
physical, they demand for sex.
2. For
status sake: It may shock you to know that most of the men I asked pointed out
that one of the leading reasons they cheat is to gain respect and rated high
among their folks. Yeah, men cheat because they want to compete among folks
when it comes to the number of women they have gone to bed with. This is why
some sites are now devoted to teaching men how to seduce women into sex. When
you see men gathered together drinking, most times, they just brag about the
number of women they have slept with. One of the men I asked actually told me
he slept with 37 women last year and was complaining that he didn’t meet up
with his real goal.
Well,
funny right? I really don’t know what to say about the last point but that is
true. When I asked them if they still love their committed partners, most of
them strongly agreed that they sincerely love and appreciate their committed
partners.
3. To
test bedroom strength:
The 3rd on the list why men cheat according to the people I interviewed is to test bedroom
strength. Now, men love to be called lords in the bedroom. I was discussing
with a friend sometimes ago and he told me that the real thing for him when it
comes to sex is how well his female partner screams and looks sexually defeated. Most
of these guys said that they have to go somewhere else to test their bedroom strength
and strengthen it if it is becoming weak.
I think the best thing a lady can do here is to always make her man feel
like the big boss during the bedroom hour, feel sexually defeated and make your man look
like he is too hot, great and wonderful on bed. Scream like the world is coming
to an end, always make it an unforgettable experience!
Well,
this post is long enough for now, I will continue it in one of my next posts. I
hope this post really shade more light on why men cheat in relationship. As for
you ladies, read and digest and see how you can improve on all these reasons
and see if you can prevent or reduce the chances of your man cheating on you.
You know what: I spent lots of energies writing this post on why men cheat in
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in order to promote this blog and also encourage me too. Well, if you are just tired of cheating on your partner, read how to stop cheating on your partner
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