Thursday
10 things you should never do for your man
In this post, I will clearly point out 10
things you should never do for your man because he asked you to do so. I
strongly condemn any man who tries to urge his girlfriend to do something for
him in order to proof that she loves him for real. Let us be realistic, men are
really not straight and most of them should never be trusted for any reason. I
don’t believe in the concept of: “if you love me then, you should do this…” I
strongly believe in the concept of: “if you love me then, do whatever you think
you would love to do for me…” There are lots of ladies out there who are really
ready to do anything for their man just to proof their love for him. It is
completely insane for you to do any of these 10 things for your man because he asked you, or
he urged you, or he pressurized you to do it (them). If you are the type of
lady who can do anything for your man just for the sake of love, below are 10
things you should never do for your man except you're convince within you to do it (them):
10. Have Sex
It is completely stupid of any lady to
have sex with her man because he asked her to. Look, sex is for two people and
should be done when the both are ready. When I say ready, I mean anytime
you thing you’re ready and he is also ready too. Having sex with your man
should be at your own desire, wishes and readiness. You should have sex with
your man because you want to, because you feel loved by him and because you
love him too. Don’t ever think that sex means love: having sex with your man
does not mean he will stay and not having sex with him does not mean he will
stay either. (Read: Sex and True Love)
09. Have baby before marriage
I hate it when some men demand that their
girlfriend should first have a baby before they can get married. Forget it, it
doesn’t work that way. Don’t buy to the pressure coming from your man. Let
anything you do for your relationship be of your making and let it be that you
will be ready to accept responsibility of your actions with no regret. If your
man asks for baby before marriage and you think it is not right for you, tell
him you don’t think it is right.
Communicate with him properly about it (read how to communicate with your partner) and if he doesn’t want to heed to you then, you both should open the door for exist! Off-course I also don’t buy the idea of him not doing what he thinks is right for him because of you. These things are done base on agreement which come from self made and initiated choices.
Communicate with him properly about it (read how to communicate with your partner) and if he doesn’t want to heed to you then, you both should open the door for exist! Off-course I also don’t buy the idea of him not doing what he thinks is right for him because of you. These things are done base on agreement which come from self made and initiated choices.
08. Have sex without Condom
Many guys out there are frustrated
because of the use of condom in having sex! Many want to try it raw! As for me,
if your man wants you to proof your love for him and he is demanding that you
have sex with without protection and you strongly don’t think it is a good idea
then, he is a beast. Sex without condom is risky especially between two people
who are not married yet.
07. Sleep with other guys for money or
for something else
I have heard of some ladies who stupidly
slept with some other men for the sake of their boyfriends. That is stupidity
at the highest level. If your man loves and respects you, he will never even
think of allowing you to have sex with another person because he wants some
things done for him. Some ladies even have sex with other men because their
boyfriends urged them to do so in order for them to raise money and get married
in future. Rubbish!! Full time rubbish!!!! He will never marry you my dear. Don’t
ever do it. (Read: The Type of Man you should never date) and (The Type of Man You Should Date)
06. Get High or Drunk
Any guy who sincerely loves you will
never tell you to get drunk. Love comes with respect and respect is a value.
Don’t ever think of getting drunk because he asked you to.
I know the kind of pressure most ladies are under-going from men simply because they are in love. How can your man ask you to get drunk because you love him? He knows that he doesn’t love you at all and he cares not. If you think getting drunk is good for you and you love it, you can go ahead and do it and not because he asked you to do it in order to proof that you love him for real.
I know the kind of pressure most ladies are under-going from men simply because they are in love. How can your man ask you to get drunk because you love him? He knows that he doesn’t love you at all and he cares not. If you think getting drunk is good for you and you love it, you can go ahead and do it and not because he asked you to do it in order to proof that you love him for real.
05. Threesome
Some ladies find themselves doing this
not because they love it but because their boyfriends have brainwashed them to
do it. If you are not the type who love threesome, don’t ever think about it,
don’t even think of doing it because he asked you to do it. I was in a forum
recently and the lady was complaining that her man usually come back home with
one female stranger or the other! According to her, he will urge her to do
threesome if she loves him. She was complaining bitterly that she finds herself
sharing her man with another woman in her own present. Are you a prostitute? If
threesome is not your ideal thing, SAY HELL NO TO YOUR MAN WHEN HE ASKS FOR IT.
If he is not satisfied with the sex he is getting from you, show him the exist
door.
Well, I have written almost 1000 words
for this post. I will continue with the rest 5 in my next post. I hope you
really enjoyed reading 10 things you should never do for your man. Make sure
you don’t do any of these for your man if your heart did not convince you to.
The reason I discussed these particular things is because ladies are the ones
who stand the chance of suffering more if they ever do any of these 10 things
for the male folks especially when they are pushed to. Are you a lady, read,
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2 Responses to “10 things you should never do for your man”
25 April 2013 at 07:40
Very interesting post you have here again Dr. I always read your posts and they are seriously great. I think this is one problem with us women. We most times are carried away by some set of bad guys who make us do what we never planned doing. I did it once and I realized I made a mistake but now, I have vowed never to have sex with a man because he urged me to but because I sincerely feel like doing so. Thanks once again for this interesting post, God bless you Kingsley.
25 April 2013 at 19:17
Thanks for your comment dear reader. Hope you will find other articles very interesting too. Have fun around here.
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