Monday
“We Fight every day!”
Dear
Dr.love
My name
is ***** (name withheld by me) and I’m 22 years old. I’m in a long term committed
relationship with a 32 year old business man. I’m currently in my 3oo level
studying mass communication and linguistics in Uniport. I started going out
with him about a year ago and we are heading to marriage. I met him when I
visited one of my friends in her hostel.
The
problem now is that ever since we committed ourselves into getting married, we
now fight each day! Even if we plan not to fight, we still end up fighting! I’m
seriously having headache and nights of emotional depressions because of this
single issue. I’m now ashamed of my relationship because we fight over almost
everything. There is hardly a day that passes without us fighting and saying
very hurtful things to each other and yet, we still long to see each other and stay together. Please Dr.love, what should I do?
My Dear
In your
email, you didn’t state some of the things that make you both to fight. And
when you say fight, do you mean he hits you or you hit him? Well, I believe it
is not any of the two. I believe you both argue too much. I recommend you read
this post: How to end the endless argument in your relationship.
Furthermore,
I strongly recommend you both to talk about the fight anytime the both of you
are calm. Express yourself properly. I strongly believe that there is something
causing this fight between the both of you which is protectionism. Give each
other some spaces and remove the banner of marriage from your relationship.
Kindly email me for more idea okay. I wish you the best in your life journey
and thanks for contacting me.
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