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Why most Relationships don’t work out
I have
come to realize that people just find themselves in one love relationship or
the other and as a result, they have suffered multiple heartbreaks.
Relationships most times don’t work out because of certain factors. In this
post, I will try so well to point out why relationships don’t work out for many
people. I have come to realize that some people have taking it as part of life
to experience lots of failed relationships but I want to ask us these simple
questions: why is it that most relationships don’t work out? Was it like this
in the past? Do people have to undergo different types of relationship before
they finally meet that special person? Is failed relationship becoming parts of
us all? Do you think most relationships are not working out because there is something
wrong with love? Well, I have seen people accuse love endlessly as the major
reason relationships don’t work. It is very stupid of them all because there is
nothing wrong with love. In fact, love is as perfect as our Creator. It is good
and fun to be in love. We humans are the reasons relationships don’t work out
these days. Below are some of the major reasons most relationships don’t work
out:
1. Most
people aren’t ready before venturing into love relationship
When I
say ready, I mean what I’m talking about here. Unlike in the past, people these
days just jump on anything called affairs just because it is the happening
thing now or the just because they feel like venturing into it. I must confess here that age
is not a major criteria for being ready for love relationship. What really
matter is your state of mind preparedness. You’re meant to read lots of books
regarding love relationships, the expectations, the challenges, the fun side
etc so that you know what you’re entering into. You are also meant to read books on your gender and the opposite sex to understand the functionality of each.
Forget it,
most times; we just feel pressurized from within to enter into relationship but
the reality is that we aren’t ready for it. Be matured in thinking by first
applying for wisdom on how you judge, how you see, how you take, how you think and how you
feel before you venture into love relationship if not, you will just experience
lots and lots of disastrous heartbreaks. Relationship is relative so, you have
to understand that relationship books are meant to be what they do for you and
not what they do to you. Since relationship is relative, what you should do is
read wide and assimilate base on your personality simple.
2.
Humans expect too much in relationship
People
these days expect too much from their partners and the relationship they have
found themselves. You know what? When you expect too much from your
relationship, you are most likely going to be disappointed period! Relationship
is not like the ‘dream big’ syndrome, it is a different thing all together,
what you have to do is to have hope and not exaggerated expectations. It is as
a result of exaggerated expectations people have for their relationship that
they find it difficult forgiven their partners when they (their partner) fall short good acts. Expect less
from your relationship and feel good about yourself.
3. Humans
are resistant to change
Most people
go into relationship with the mindset of retaining their full characteristics.
As long as you have entered into relationship, you must compromise, you must
absorb changes, you must tolerate, you must admit, you must loosen up and all
these I just mentioned are parts of human changes. You must undergo change in
your life for your relationship to work out. I strongly believe that people can
work things out in their relationships: it is about compromising, it is about
letting go, it is about accepting blames and apologizing, it is about sacrifice, it
is about the two of you and not just you. You can’t remain you once you’re
in love relationship or else, that relationship will never work out. There are
certain parts of you that must disappear for the sake of the relationship. For
example, if you used to watch football matches till 10 pm in the night before
and you just found love and entered into relationship, you must compromise with
the length of watching football and in most cases, you just have to do without
watching football.
I may
talk more on this topic later but for now, kindly do with the above stated
points. The purpose of writing this topic: why most relationship don’t work out
is to help you see the reasons relationships are not working out these days and
try to adjust in order to experience a successful relationship.
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