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How to overcome feeling insecure in a relationship
Feeling Insecure in a relationship
Feeling
insecure is one of the worst things that can happen to anybody in long term
relationship. In fact, it’s killing! So many people are in one relationship or
the other where feeling insecure rules their world. Feeling insecure can destroy any
relationship no matter the amount of trust already built in it by the two
partners. I must admit that I have felt insecure one way or the other and I
must admit that it was really a terrible experience. May be you’re searching for how you can
overcome feeling insecure, may be you are not but whichever the case, this article
will try and cover issues such as causes of feeling insecure in relationship, dangers
of feeling insecure in relationship and how to overcome feeling insecure in your
relationship.
Causes
of feeling insecure
1: Bridge of
trust
Yeah,
when the trust in a relationship is broken or is bridged then, there is a big
problem. The person at the receiving end may be eaten up by insecurity. Even
the person who bridged the trust can also start feeling insecure because he or
she may start feeling that the other partner will hit back. This occurs
especially if the bridge of trust in the relationship has to do with cheating in the relationship.
Try and read up: Why men cheat in relationship: why women cheat in relationship. Also read up:
2: Wide
gap between the two partners: Some people are not really this competitive type
and any little move by the other partner seems competitive to them. They may
start feeling insecure as a result of this. The person may be tormented with
the feelings that he/she is not good enough. This gap can be in form of social
status, academic achievements etc.
3: Fear:
Fear in
relationship is completely another case on its own. It is really very wicked.
Fear can generate the spirit of feeling insecure by one partner or even the two partners. Read up: how to overcome the spirit of fear in a relationship.
4: Relationship
without sex:
I know
that some of you may not go with this but that is the truth. I have been in
this kind of mess and I know what I’m talking about. Any relationship without
sex can generate this feelings of insecurity by the both partners or one of
them. Now, the ‘No Sex’ rule may be coming from the lady (majority of this rule comes from
the lady) so, the man may start feeling insecure based on the assumptions that
he may not eventually be the person who will have sex with the lady in
the nearest future. The spirit of insecurity may torment him so hard that he may....
On the other hand, the lady may start feeling insecure based on the
assumptions that she may lose the guy because he may start having sex with
other ladies outside. To me, this is the most complicated and the most
difficult type of insecurity to solve in any relationship.
5: Long
term relationship:
Long term
relationship has its own headaches and I have advised (my personal opinion)
some people to shun it. Long term relationship is very difficult and stressful
and it brings along with it the spirit of feeling insecure. In fact, it takes a
very mature and over experienced person not to feel insecure in a long term
relationship. Read up: Tips for successful Long term relationship without sex.
Now, what are the dangers of feeling insecure in your
relationship?
This
will be treated in one of my next posts. I hope you enjoyed reading: how to
overcome feeling insecure in your relationship. Above all, I just want you to
know that feeling insecure in your relationship is not healthy but at the same time, it is not your
fault that you’re feeling insecure in your relationship. Make sure you don’t miss out when I publish
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insecure is not good but it can be handled. Please, help promote this blog via
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