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How to secure your man from leaving you for another woman

I have realized that in most cases, women are the major reasons men leave them when its matters most it the love relationship! Some women are too blind in the relationship to do what is right to secure their men from leaving them. True love is a mutual feeling but some ladies have made it one sided feeling. I have written several true love posts which will definitely guide you properly to understand the concept of true love, check out some of them:
see the qualities of true love
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what is true love
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Since a man is easily moved by what he sees, he may be lured away by another woman, but if you as his woman really know what men desire, he will never abandon you for another woman.
Don't you know that when another woman successfully lure your man away from you, she didn't steal him but had just defeated you!!! play your card well woman; relationship is more than just been guided by true love, it requires lots of knowledge and consistence.


There are some men who have never cheated before in a relationship and will never cheat. It is not only because they truly love their female partners but because, their female partners truly know the things they desire. Every woman should learn how to treat the man and secure him forever. As I said before, true love is a mutual thing: just the way your man is trying so hard to make you fall in love or make you love him the more, you should also try to make him love you and stay forever. It is not all about sex in the relationship but true emotional satisfaction and men also love emotional satisfaction. These few guides will help you treat your man better and secure him from leaving you for another woman:
Never be selfish: most ladies are emotionally selfish in the relationship. This is why you hear some ladies saying; ‘if he loves me, he should wait till after marriage before we have sex’ this is a common statement and belief among African women. There is nothing too wrong with the statement but something becomes all wrong when the woman starts being selfish. Some ladies will say the above statement and still expect the man to continue to work harder to keep them in the relationship: it is the man who will do almost all the phone calling in the relationship, he would be the one who buys almost all the gifts, he does the text messaging, he takes you out for shopping, he works hard to build the relationship etc. if he doesn't do all these, he will not be tagged as a true lover and you still stood on your vow that he will never touch you till after wedding. You still don't expect him to cheat on you because if he does, you quit him. All these put the man under serious pressure that if he sees any little pleasure outside the relationship, he goes for it and might never return to you again. It doesn't make sense if all what people say about your relationship is that: ‘he loves you so much’, the right thing people should be saying about your relationship is: ‘you both love each other so much’. Please, also call him, text him, respect him, take him out too, buy him gifts, take him for shopping and pay for them, try to surprise him too, learn new things from love and relationship experts and apply them in your relationship.  Read how to express love in the relationship , it will help you learn how to express love to your partner.
Don't put him under lots of pressure; if you have vowed not to allow him to touch you until marriage, please, do not expect him to be the Romeo you have been hearing about. If he cheats on you, try and forgive him and give him another chance, since he is respecting the rule you set in the relationship. I think men perform even better in a relationship when they are opportune to have sex with the lady in the relationship.
My dear, there are lots of other things I will love to talk about, I will continue on this topic in one of my next posts. There are many things you can do to make your man feel better in the true love relationship. Be reasonable as a woman, forget the woman's fantasy of love and dream. Do not punish your man simply because he is in a love relationship with you. Take your time and make him very happy. Study him very well to know who he truly is. True love is meant to bring true happiness to you and your partner in the relationship. I hope this true love advice is helpful. Please, share this post with your friends or contact me, let me know what you feel about my posts.

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