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During the past few weeks, most of the emails I received have being on “how can I get over my ex?” I actually proffered advice on these questions (how to get over your ex) that rolled into my mail box and I found out that I was proffering similar solution so, I decided to write it comprehensively on this blog. I can’t dispute the fact that it's pretty hard getting over an ex. This is because the ex you actually want to get over with had strong things to do with your emotional state. Matters of the heart are emotionally bound and it becomes even harder when you really love the person. Failing in love is like a game of chance since humans will always be humans, I can disappoint, you can disappoint, we all can disappoint or can anyone strongly tell me that he or she has never disappointed before? This is why I recommend you read how to overcome the fear of heart break in your relationship which teaches you the bases of embarking on any love relationship.

For those of you who are already heartbroken, I strongly believe that these easy steps can help you not only forget your ex but also move on with your life gallantly. Before you read on, please, kindly answer these questions:
Are you being tormented by the thought of your ex?
Are you really ready to get over your ex?
Did he/she break your heart and you want to be done with him/her but you find it hard to?
Are you ready to move on without your ex?
If your answers are YES to all of the questions above then, these proven easy steps will guide you through:

1. Forgive your ex: most times forgiveness is not about favoring your ex but it also about helping yourself, because breakup affects the psychology of a person and it is mainly being able to forgive that can set you free. Forgive whatever your ex did to you that caused the breakup, be his or her friend it will help you to move on with your life. Forgiving your ex does more good to you than to your ex at least it reduces the hurt you feel inside. You seriously have to be strong to get along with your life and forgiving your partner clears your heart and set you free.

2. Give away everything that reminds you of your ex: I meant it when I said you should give away every single thing that reminds you of your ex. Anything that portrays that state of emotional weakness over your ex, please give them away. Most people would have said burning them or throwing them away. I don't buy that idea because it signifies wickedness, pains, hatred etc. Remember that forgiveness is very important in getting over your ex so, you seriously need to be lovely to the needy. Locate one of the motherless homes and dash out every gift your ex bought for you, locate the needy in your society and give these gifts out to them. How will this step help me get over an ex? Now, when you give out these gifts, you will be happy because you are adding value to someone else’s life and nature will help heal you. Believe me, burning your ex gifts will not help you at all but will cause you more pains. As for the texts messages, delete them.

3. Focus on the positive aspect of the relationship: See your ex as a mistake you are grateful for. Think of the positive impact your ex made in you, and be grateful that you embarked on the journey. I have said it before that no relationship journey is a mistake but a lesson. The problem with most of us is that we tend to dwell so much on the negative aspect of the relationship, we dwell so much on the fact that our ex left us, we tend to dwell so much on the negative sides of our past relationship: for instance, we dwell so much on the fact that the relationship we so much cherished, nurtured, invested so much on just collapsed, but come to think of it, you have learn something new, yes, I know you have, no matter how small it maybe, you should be grateful to your ex for teaching you some of the new things. Do not see yourself as someone that lost rather; be thankful that you found out who your ex really was: that he/she never really loved you. Kim kardashian married for 72 days, Britney spears 2 days simply because they didn’t realise who their partners really were on time.

4. Do not date or do anything to get back at your ex. Most people usually get it wrong here. It is a pity that most people jump into another relationship simply because their ex dumped them for another person. Just to get back at their ex or just to proof to their ex that they are not a push over, they jump into another relationship. Believe me if you do any such thing you will keep thinking about your ex and how he or she has hurt you. And also it won't be fair to your new partner. Always remember that you can be well treated by another person, because a person's rejected stone can be another person's sweetheart. See your ex as someone that gave way for a better person. What is yours will still come to you, it only takes patience. When l first broke up with my first girlfriend I thought she the whole world has collapsed on me but that is not true because I seem better now without her.

This post: Easy steps to get over your ex boy/girlfriend is still part of Dr.love’s true love relationship blog and I hope its has helped you. Please, bear it in mind that the reason behind this post is to establish the power of letting go and forgiveness. Nothing heals than forgiveness, don't go about getting over your ex through the harsh and wicked way, it won't help you at all. I'm a living witness. Remember that one of the qualities of true love is forgiveness. Move on with your life, don't be harsh on yourself, don't hate yourself, be focused and always smile. Please, if you have read this post why not help promote this blog by first: 'like' this post, share your thought on the box below and then share this post with your friends on google, facebook, twitter, dig etc, it will only cost you few seconds. Remember, someone else will love to read this. your comments are highly welcomed.