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5 reasons you are having problem in your relationship

Problems in relationship are caused by us humans and not because love is wicked or that love does not exist. In fact, I have heard some people saying that love is a fairytale. Some people can argue with you that love only exist in the world of movies. There is nothing wrong with love. The only thing wrong with love is we humans and if we can work on ourselves, love and relationship will be better for it. In this post, Drlove will highlight 5 reasons you may be having problems in your relationship:
1. You compare your relationship with other relationships

This is one big factor that causes relationship problem. You could be comparing your relationship with that of other relationships around. You may be doing this unconsciously or consciously. For instance, you may be comparing your relationship with that you see on movies, novels or your friend's relationship. Comparing your relationship can prevent you from seeing the real you in the relationship. Every relationship is unique and don't be carried away by what you see. Start seeing the positive side of your relationship and work with that.

2. You are scared
You can be pumping problems in your relationship simply because you are scared. This is what we call relationship fear and can prevent you from putting in your best in the relationship, make you desperate, make you cheat, make you choke your partner. Mind you, you being scared in your relationship can prevent the flow of love between you and your partner.

3. Your past
If you allow your past to dictate your present and direct your future, you are bound to have problems in your relationship. May be you had very disappointing past relationships, please, let it die with the past and be happy with yourself and face the present to direct the future. (read how to overcome the fear of heartbreak)

4. Material quest
You can't do two things at the same time. If your quest for material things is higher than the attention you give to yourself and your relationship, you are bound to have problems. You have to balance it. I want to remind you that love is bigger than material acquisition. Remember that money and other worldly things will go but love remains forever. (read  40 qualities of true love)

5. lack of forgiving spirit
Forgiveness allows love to descend. I know it's very hard to forgive someone you trust so much. But it's very necessary you imbibe the spirit of forgiveness. May be your partner have not done anything wrong for you to forgive but if you have that lack of forgiving spirit inside of you naturally, it can make things difficult for your relationship. When you forgive not only your partner but others, you let yourself free.

This post is to help you highlight the reasons you may be having problems in your relationship and it's now left for you to work on yourself and improve your relationship (read 5 secrets to successful relationship). You can still contact me for further assistance. Please, help promote this post by doing these simple 3 things: Comment on this post, ‘like’ the post and share it on facebook, tweet it, and share it on google +.

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