Wednesday
Reasons women are always heart broken
Wednesday by Unknown
In the part one of this post (Reasons women are always heart broken 1), I pointed out that women are usually heartbroken in relationship because they are not the ones who go for the relationship. Women are always heartbroken in relationship and men are taking advantage of this. In this post, I will point out the second reason here:
Women in most cases, don't really know what they want
Women have proven several times that they sometimes don’t know what they want when it comes to relationships. When you ask a lady the qualities she desire her man or prospective man to have, she would give you endless fairytale lists of qualities. I call them fairytales because women who are mature have come to understand that it’s not that way. Some women will tell you that my prospective man must be: tall, handsome, rich, funny, romantic, etc. Now, when a man who posses all or some of these qualities starts dating some women, most of these ladies tend to complain or heartbroken by these men because what they listed out are not really what they wanted. Most times women allow physical qualities (read 40 qualities of true love) to distract them from finding true love. (Read how to find true love and 34 signs that he really love you)
A man who will love and take care of you must not posses all the physical qualities you can think of. When a woman starts looking down to realities of mature minds in men, she is likely not going to experience much of relationship heart break.
As a lady, don't be controlled by certain things. Seek for the real qualities in a man and save yourself of lots of heartbreak. Men are getting smart day after day. They are running away from women who fall in love simply because of physical attraction.
The worst part of it is that women who seek these physical qualities always fall for the wrong guys. Some ladies, in fact, most ladies seek for love, romance, attention, maturity, protection etc but will prefer to seek for tallness, riches, handsome, famous etc over their main needs. At the end, they are heartbroken. This is because these guys don’t really love them.
If a man loves you, he will portray some qualities naturally to you rather than pretending to have them. I really wish you best of luck as you continue in your quest for love. learn to go for your relationship as a woman. Stop allowing men to dictating the kind of relationship you want. If you see a man you love and desire, go for him, ask him out. call for a date with him etc.
Finally, make sure you are not carried away by physical qualities. Seek first the inner qualities and be wise before accepting a man into your life. Not all that glitters are gold. Why do you think women are more heartbroken in relationships? I want to hear from you, please kindly comment, share and like this post. Tags: love relationship