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Signs you are going to end up as his girlfriend not his wife
Being in a girlfriend zone for life with a man whom you are hoping will end up with you is very frustrating. When you are dating a man who doesn't have you in his plans for the future, it simply means that
you are just wasting your time. It means you are simply going to end up as a
girlfriend. It simply means that you're as good as a girlfriend and not a wife
material.
Well,
men are more specific and more direct when it comes to the type of women they
want as wives and the type they want as a girlfriends than women. Women are
sometimes confused on what they want in a man who they wish to marry and the reality
of things. The notion; ‘love is blind’ seems to work more on ladies than men!
Don't get mad at me ladies but you know I'm saying the truth.
It
does not matter how long you have been with this guy, it does not matter the
amount of promises he has made, he is making and he will still make, it does
not matter if you know his family too well. What matters is what the guy sees
you as: Are you a girlfriend material or a wife material when it comes to him?
The answer to that question is what really matters.
Forget
the promises, familiarity, sex and plans a man may have with you. What you
should be dealing with is his perception about you. Below are some of the signs
which indicate that you are just a girlfriend and nothing more than that to
come in future:
1.
He easily makes positive promises to you about the future (actually, he doesn't consider any of such promises because he knows he will never keep to them)
2.
He hardly involve you in his own future plans
3.
He can easily be verbally abusive to you and sees nothing wrong with that
4.
He always want you to invest in his own future
5.
He uses you as a source of making money such as you meeting other men to make money
for him.
6. He
just can't stop cheating on you
7.
His is very selfish to you
8.
He is always avoiding your family members especially when it is obvious that he
is quite ready to start getting along with some of them but he is smart enough to always introduce you to his own family members.
9.
He seems not to be interested in remembering very important dates in your life
10.
Lying to you is not really a big deal to him
11.
He is rarely honest to you
12.
He has little emotional connections with you
13.
He doesn't feel that much of jealousy if you do things which should have
warranted that
14.
He does not show much of concern to issues about your future
15.
He shows less concern about your appearance
16.
He can violet your body in the public
17.
He can easily talk about your private moments with his male friends
18.
You don't get best of his love gifts because you aren't his wife to be and may
be you see him as your future partner so, you do more of the gifting…sorry for
you dearie!
Well,
these are some of the signs I have noticed from men who see their female lover
as only girlfriend material. It will be very difficult to see guys with such
treatments on their girlfriend to ever propose. I think you should start
examining yourself to know if you're going to end up as a girlfriend or a wife.
Kindly share, ‘like’ and comment on this post. That's all you can do for me.
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