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Compatibility and Love???
Compatibility + true love makes relationship sweet like honney
Dr.love
You can
see that in the title of this article, I used 3 question marks on it. This is
to indicate that I asked a question. The question now is compatibility and
love, which one goes first and which one is more important? I can remember that
I once wrote on the topic: Love Vs understanding and in that article, Dr.love
tried to answer question such as; between love and understanding, which is more
important? Similarly, Dr.love will attempt to clear the air on a very important
issue which is compatibility and the issue of love in a love relationship.
We all
have heard about love many times and this site has more than 200 articles talking about
love. It will be interesting for you know that not all those that are in a
committed love relationship are compatible and not all those who are compatible
in a relationship are in love! Interesting right?
What
does it mean to be compatible with your partner? I will define what it means to
be compatible with your partner in a relationship by quoting one of my favourite
dictionaries-the Encarta dictionary: To be Compatible means to be harmonious
which means to be able to exist, live, or work together without conflict. Well,
the above definition to mean does not go along with the true nature of any love
relationship. This is because couples must fight and there are benefits of conflicts in love relationship which true lovers can benefit from. So, to me, to be
compatible with your partner means to be able to live together, exist together
or work together without a constant conflict.
The
truth of the matter is that partners who are not compatible together will
hardly find the true happiness and joy of true love. This is because they depress
each other often. Another truth of the matter here is that partners who are not in
love but are compatible together may enjoy the true fun of partnership/relationship but may never
last because any day either of them finds true love else where, he/she may quit the
relationship or suddenly feel cheated or have missed out in something more interesting.
Which of
the two is more important?
The
both are very important but I personally value compatibility more but respect
and honour love as an abstract concept. Compatibility makes the journey of love
smoother and exciting.
Compatibility and love: Which one should come first?
I personally suggest that compatibility check should be done before the love thing takes place. Unfortunately, no one can control when he/she falls in love or falls out of love but for two people considering long term relationship, they should consider their compatibility rate first before opening their heart to welcome flow of love.
How to
know that you are not compatible with your partner but both of you are in love
If you
both quarrel, fight, argue almost all the time and as a result feel depress, misfortune,
bad, angry, disappointed, cheated etc but the both of you truly and sincerely
enjoy any moment you both don’t quarrel, argue or fight. I hope you understood
what I pointed out. What I’m trying to say here is that the best part of lovers
who are not compatible but are in love comes when they are not quarreling,
when they are together without a major fight: there is this internal joy and
excitement within them and it is usually mutual.
Another
important sign here is that the both of you will enjoy each others’ company and
long for it but when you both finally come together, a major fight may erupt!
How to
know that you both are compatible but not really in love
The
best way to know is that your relationship with your partner will be extremely
official. Nothing will seem unofficial at all. The childish nature of true
partners each time they are together will not exist between you two. You both
will surely fight less and the inner excitement, heartbeat, joy, excitement to
surprise and the actual surprises will not last longer within you both. The question now is how can couples who seem not to be compatible but are in love manage their relationship successfully?
(For more on signs of true love: read up: Signs of true love, How to find true love, Signs that he loves you and Signs you're in love)
Well, I have written more than 600 words
already and I have to stop here. I hope this article is clear and interesting
enough. I hope it is informative enough. In my next post, I will write on how
partners who are not really compatible in a relationship but are in love can
manage the relationship successfully. Just remember that compatibility is as
important as love in every relationship.
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