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Setting your mind right and sharp for future heart break!!
It pays
to set your mind right and sharp for in your relationship. I recently heard of a
story about two lovers which motivated me to write this post. I wanted to write
on why women cheat 2 but that sad story motivated me to write on the need for
lovers to sharpen their minds and set it right to avoid killing themselves as a result of heart break.
Love is beautiful, love is sweet and love is worth the pains and the beautiful
memories but you must sharpen your mind and put it in right frame if you really
want to be strong for your relationship and if you really don’t want to commit
suicide when the worst happens which is break up/heart break!!!
The
story I heard started about 15 years ago when two people decided to be lovers
and as time goes on, they agreed to get married. The lady in question and the
young man are both from Nigeria. The young man loved and cherished the lady so
much. He met her when she was young.
The lady’s family just didn't have much at
all that they even didn’t want her to go to the university!
The guy
took it upon himself to train the girl starting from her pre-university
exterminations. He paid for the purchase of the forms and she finally secured
admission into one of the best universities in Nigeria. She secured to read
Law! Law is very expensive course I hope you know that.
The
school fees for Law in that school was very high and the young man didn’t have
much since he was a fresh graduate! He asked the lady to go complain to her two
brothers and see if they can add something while he brings the rest of the
cash. She went crying to her brothers but they advised her to quit school with
the excuse that her family can not pay for her fees!!
She
came back to her boyfriend crying but the guy had to go about borrowing money
from people with promise of paying interests. He finally was able to get the
money and he paid for her fees. She spent 5 years in the school while the guy
who was still struggling continued training her in the school carrying all the
expenses all to himself!
Last
year November, the girl graduated and had to go to Law school which was too
expensive. In fact, the lady believed that she was going to miss law school because of its expenses. But her boyfriend proofed her wrong as he paid for
it!! She was surprised and knelt down to thank him! They already got engaged to
be married immediately she graduates from Law school.
In
January 2013, the girl met another man who changed her mind over her 13 years old
relationship!!! Within a week of knowing this new guy, the girl had sex with
him several times and broke up with her 13 years old relationship!! What a
shock readers!!!
She
didn’t only break up with the guy, she now insulted the young man and was telling
him that she would pay him off of all his expenses on her. What nonsense!! The
young man got depressed and pleaded on men of God to beg the lady to change her
mind but the lady remained adamant. She planned to marry the new man and travel
to Europe with him soonest!!!
Tips, Tips, Tips!!!
1. In
setting your mind sharp and right, you need to make sure that you don’t have
much of expectations from your relationship! It is about having full control
over your mind and how your mind operates. Humans are the controller of what
dwells in their minds. Are you with me?
2. Don’t give all your love to your partner because humans can change at any time. Don’t get me wrong okay: what I mean is that you should try as much as possible to love yourself and systematically share some percentages of the love you have for your partner with that of yourself. Remember that your best friend is just YOU...
2. Don’t give all your love to your partner because humans can change at any time. Don’t get me wrong okay: what I mean is that you should try as much as possible to love yourself and systematically share some percentages of the love you have for your partner with that of yourself. Remember that your best friend is just YOU...
3. Don’t
trust too much, give room for doubt and live by faith and hope and not by
trust. Living by Trust means that you believe stupidly but living by faith
means you give room for doubt which will push you to do the necessary things in
order to see your faith come to past.
4. Double dating
is not the answer and will never help issues. Double dating will complicate
things for you.
5. Spend
time with yourself alone and discover those things that can help you grow
personally….
6. Create an
independent lifestyle from that of your partner but please, don’t overdo it.
7. Spend time
to appreciate nature…it strengthens the inner being.'
I hope
you really gained from this post. Kindly share this post with your friends,
LIKE it and drop your comment or email me…REMEMBER, SETTING YOUR MIND SHARP AND
READY FOR POSSIBLE HEART BREAK can help reduce damaging effects of any prospective
heart break!!
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