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15 Signs your partner is taking you for granted
Some people
are suffering this problem and they are the ones at the receiving end! They are
being taken for granted! Some partners are aware that they are taking the other
partner for granted while some are not. In the same case, some partners are not
really sure if they are been taken for granted or not. The best they can do is
assume and end up fighting and arguing constantly with their mate. In anyway, I’m
here to share with you 16 signs that your partner is taking you for granted for
real.
Very important
note here is what you can do when you have realized that your partner is taking
you for granted because if you don’t handle it properly, it may really become a
disaster. You both may break up wrongly. So, here are 15 signs that your
partner is taking you for granted:
- You’re not their priority: when your partner is not considering you a priority then, he/she is taking you for granted! You are part of your partner and he/she is expected to have you as a priority. Some of the tips to know if you are a priority in your partner’s life are: if your partner considers you a future he/she will not like to toy with, if your partner involves you in his/her activities that are very import, if your partner share his/her plans with you and listens to you (but you must ensure you make considerable suggestions for your partner to find it freely to consult your idea before he/she takes certain steps) etc
- Your favours. Your special favors have now turned into an expectation. Even if you do something special, your partner believes it’s your responsibility to do that. And if you don’t do something nice all the time, your partner gets angry with you or sulks like you’ve done something really bad.
- You’re ignored: Your partner easily ignores you and your activities especially those you did from the bottom of your heart. Your partner easily feels indifferent towards you. Sometimes you ask him/her questions and the next thing they careless about how you feel or needed explanations. (Read up, Things you must not do for your man)
- Your sacrifice don’t mean anything: when your partner starts making you feel that your sacrifice doesn’t mean anything repeatedly then, he/she does take you for granted.
- You’re used to being forgotten: It’s been happening for so long that you don’t even think twice about it. Your partner forgets your birthday or your special days, doesn’t really know what’s happening in your life, and doesn’t take the initiate to even ask you about your day because they believe their life is so much more important than yours. Think twice, he/she is taking you for granted.
- Your partner doesn’t admit their mistakes: some people are born with this problem so, you have to discover if it is a natural problem or taking for granted but which ever one, it is completely wrong and you deserve better. Some people have big ego that even when they know right deep inside them that they are wrong or they have made mistakes, they simply won’t admit it. Some people are experts in turning the table around just to make you feel bad about yourself. I know of a girlfriend who will never say: I’m sorry whenever she does something wrong instead, she will request for a break-up with the excuse that she is feeling too bad! Well, that is too bad: if you have such partner, just know that he/she is taking you for granted. Read How to break-up with your partner without hurting him/her.
- They just don’t have time for you: I have said it before and I will say it again, time was never made available for anybody. People create time. No matter how busy you’re, you just have to learn how to create time for your partner and at the same time, you have to understand the nature and the stage level of your relationship. If your partner doesn’t have time for you at all, he/she is simply taking your availability for granted. Read, How to give your partner deserve attention
- They don’t fear losing you: How can you tell? They just don’t seem to care with whom you go or what you’re doing, even if you mention that you’re at a party or out with an old friend from college. When your partner respects your emotional relationship, he/she must feel concern about the people you keep around you. He/she must feel jealous. Jealousy is part of love but too much of it is a disease. Read How to deliver yourself from spirit of excessive jealousy
- They get very impatient with you: Your partner loses their temper very easily while trying to explain something to you or even refuse to explain things for you. It is your right to be explained for whenever you demand for it and also it’s your partner’s right to choose the appropriate time to explain to you. Remember where your right ends, that of your partner starts from there.
- When you call or text your partner, they don’t call you back even if several hours pass by and you know they’re not that busy. Or worse, when you confront them about it in the evening, they tell you that they completely forget about it!
- You fear if they even care: But be careful of this sign because your fears may be deceiving you. Read, How to overcome feeling insecure in your relationship
- You’re often blamed: sure, if your partner easily blames you then, he/she is taking you for granted. Also, you have to watch your self properly to know if you’re truly not getting things right. Remember the place of communication in the success of your relationship. (read how to communicate effectively in your relationship and Secrets to successful relationship)
- They don’t listen to you: Your lover constantly forgets what you say even if you remind them about it several times. They may not be a bad person, but this kind of behavior just shows how low on their list of priorities you are.
- They expect more all the time: you are simply never good enough and he/she will never guide you properly only to blame you for everything. At the same time my dear, you have to watch out if you are in the category of those who hardly learn when taught!
- Your partner doesn’t keep to promises and doesn’t respect agreements: you may enter into agreement with your partner and each time you people do this, your partner ends up breaking the agreement. It could also be promises that your partner just don’t keep to. This act shows that he/she does take you for granted!
I hope this article is helpful to you. You have to understand
that these signs on how to know for sure if your partner is taking you for
granted can only count if your partner exhibit these signs or most of the
signs constantly. Share this article with your friends on facebook and twitter,
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relationship and your thoughts about in the comment boxes below.
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