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Tips on how to make your first love your final love
Yeah,
I’m very much sure it is quite difficult achieving this great idea but who says
you can’t? After all, many couples in the Christendom got married with the
partner they went into serious relationship with for the first time in their
life. Mind you, no body knows if you will end up with your first but at least,
you can help reduce the number of ex you will have in your lifetime! Another
very important point here is that marrying your first does not guarantee you
successful relationship/marriage. I believe you have read the hitherto of this
article: Advantages of getting married to your first love. Now, below are some
tips for ensuring you settle down with your first:
- Avoid playing games with human emotions: Remember law of Karma!
- Set the goal: it is one thing to read this and it is another thing to set a target. If you don’t set a target, you may never achieve this. You must first believe that you really need to achieve this goal and then apply these tips.
- Only go into relationship when you are ready: So many people go into love relationship out of emotional deception and pressure from friends. Some go into love relationship because physical attraction. I’m not against you choosing to become a player: that is a personal decision. Be sure you are psychologically, emotionally and physically ready for love relationship before you go into it: Don’t be deceive by so many things that deceive people today into love relationship!
- Discover yourself: You have to discover who you are before you jump into love relationship
- Consider the place of ideology: This particular mistake has hurt so many people today. So many people are stocked in love relationship that they can’t come out of it. Ensure you are entering into love relationship with that person who shares similar ideology with you. Take this point very serious.
- Don’t be afraid: this factor has killed so many ladies today. Most ladies are afraid of not getting married on-time as a result, they jump into love relationship with the hope that it will lead to marriage. Hay, it is not how fast but how well. Don’t be afraid of tomorrow: marriage is not everything. (find out if you're marriage material or just will end up as his girlfriend: click here to find out)
- Expect less: We humans most times expect too much from the relationships will found ourselves; This makes many people heartbroken, disappointed and vulnerable! (read up: How to overcome the fear of heartbreak)
Well,
the above points are the tips which you can follow to help yourself to achieve
the set goal which is getting married to your first love, Someone may ask me;
how can one learn without going into different relationship? You can learn from
other peoples’ experiences, read books, go on dates with distance friends etc.
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