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12 Silly habits that can endanger your relationship
I have always said that it that love committed relationship
remains one of the most difficult things to do in life. Normally, two people
come together to enter into love relationship which means that the two must
learn and understand each other perfectly. Sometimes, there are silly habits that are
very dangerous to your love relationship and can lead to break up! I’m sure you aren’t
ready for break up or are you? One funny thing I’m sure of is that most times,
you may be into these silly habits unconsciously because they have become part
of you. In this article, I will talk about some of the silly habits that can
endanger your relationship:
Silly habits that can endanger your relationship
1: Taken for granted: Are you the type who take people for granted? Probably you do the same to your partner! So many people are guilty of this! Learn to appreciate your partner no matter how little what he/she has done for you seem.
2. Blaming Act: Some people are simply good at the blaming game! Are you one of them? You have to stop blaming your partner for everything that goes wrong between the two of you. Learn to share the blame and accept responsibility. No one is perfect in this life so, you shouldn’t be afraid of making mistakes. Nothing hurts so much like always been blamed! If you are fond of blaming and throwing blames at your partner then, be assured that you’re putting your relationship into danger.
3. Unbalanced expectations: Are you the type who expects too much
from his/her partner but doesn’t give much in return? You see, it is a very
dangerous habit if you’re the type who has high expectations from your partner
because you may be choking her unconsciously! Learn to balance the expectations
between the two of you.
4. Promise and fail: some people have this as habit; they can easily
make a promise and can easily disappoint. One thing you should know is that
nothing hurts so much than a disappointment from someone you love! You most
check yourself on this; learn to keep to promises. Yeah I know that you aren’t
a god that you can keep to all your promises but when you make promise and fail
a habit then, you’re unconsciously endangering your relationship.
5. Lover pleaser: are you a lover pleaser? A lover pleaser is someone
who simply do everything to please the partner. Are you going extra miles to
see that your relationship works out, that your partner is happy and pleased
with you but the funny thing is that your partner is not recognizing this? Have
you spoken to your partner about it? If you haven’t then, it is a terrible
habit! You shouldn’t make pleasing your partner a habit because you may be undermining
your own happiness which will surely backfire in the future! (read up why most relationship don't work out)
6. Silent Corners: Are you the type who prefer to be silent over an
issue than to talk about it. I have made it very obvious that good
communication is one of the secrets for successful relationship. If your
partner annoys you, please kindly talk about it. Don’t be afraid of
relationship conflicts because no matter how hard you try, couples must fight! You
see, I fear any person who feels that I have hurt him/her but prefer not to
tell me! That kind of person is one of the most dangerous persons to deal with.
Keeping silent or dwelling in a silent corner always is dangerous for your
relationship. (How to benefit from Relationship Conflicts and Couples must fight!)
7. Testing your partner: Are you among those who easily test their
partners because they want to find out something? You see, no one is perfect
and your partner is likely going to make mistakes one time or the other! I
watched a movie and in that movie, two friends decided to test their wives by
wooing each others’ wife through facebook. The funny thing was that on the
process, they ended up sleeping with each others’ wife! The end of the whole
test wasn’t funny at all. Please, I’m not totally against testing your partner
but please don’t make it a habit because it is silly!
8. Monosyllables replies: some people are simply experts in this act.
When your partner is talking with you, don’t use monosyllables words to reply
him or her. It is quite crazy of you to make this act a habit.
9. Doing something else while your partner is discussing with: I
think this is quite popular among ladies! Are you the type who always do
something else when your partner is discussing with you? Some girls will be
browsing through their phone when their partner is discussing with them. I know
of a lady who was always pinging whenever her boyfriend was having discussion
with her and this single act became a habit which destroyed their relationship!
10. Jumping discussion: You know what, I personally hate it when I
choose to discuss with you and you easily jump to another topic when we are not
done with the one we were talking about! This is very bad and if you’re into it
please do stop because it can destroy your relationship. I know of a lady who
is fond of doing this but her fiancé never liked it!
11. Chewing cum while you’re having discussion with your partner: well,
this point is straight forward and I’m very sure so many people are doing this.
It is a very useless thing to form the act of chewing cum while someone is
talking with you as a habit.
12. Selfish partner: are you a selfish partner? The simple truth here
is that selfish partners are brats who want things done in their own way
always. Once you have this as a habit then, you are nothing but one of the most
terrible people to be in a relationship with! You want to go to your own
favourite places for relaxation, you want to watch your own favourite movies
and television shows always, you want it to be your choice always. You are
always saying that: “if you love me, do this, stay with me, compromise this, and
compromise that” etc. It’s very silly habit and I urge you to stop it.
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