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Why Nigerian Girls are difficult to date for long term relationship
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| Dating a typical Nigerian Girl is very difficult |
Nigerian girls are amazing and beautiful! Dating Nigerian girls can be very exciting
considering their energetic flow but personally, I have concluded that Nigerian girls remain among the most difficult girls to date in this modern time and I
will tell you why! First of all, I want to officially lunch the new desktop
version of my site. I hope you find it beautiful and user friendly. The mobile
version of my site didn’t undergo any redesign. Now, let me tell you why I personally
think that Nigerian girls are among the most difficult girls to date:
- Most Nigerian ladies are too religious
This
remains one of the leading reasons why Nigerian
ladies are quite difficult to
date! A typical Nigerian lady carries religion on her head. The problem here is
that most Nigerian ladies can’t separate religion from true worship because so
many of them are religiously blinded!
For a
typical young guy in Nigeria, the modern era brought along with it several
temptations especially from the media. Most Nigerian ladies do stand on ‘no sex
until after marriage’ idea! This is quite difficult for an average young man to
maintain. This is one of the reasons many long term relationships don’t work in
Nigeria. Unlike most other ladies in the other part of the world, ‘no sex until
after marriage’ idea is very popular among Nigerian ladies! What do you think? (I recommend you read up: Religion vs Love War!)
- Economic hardship
The
truth remains that there is high level of poverty in Nigeria. I live in Nigeria
and I’m sure of what I’m saying. The economic hardship is simply too much for
so many people to bear! What has this got to do with why Nigerian ladies are
difficult to date? Well, it has got everything to do with it! In Nigeria, so
many ladies are always counting on their prospective husbands to bear their
financial burdens and they even count so much on their boyfriends. For this single reason, it is very, very difficult for a
typical Nigerian lady to love a guy who doesn’t have reasonable amount of money
and assets. In a country where men are struggling so hard to make a living as a
result of poor infrastructural development and high level of unemployment, so
many guys are no longer finding true love from typical Nigerian ladies. When you
hear a typical Nigerian lady list out her priority she desires in her
prospective man, she list riches as the most important desire for her! (Read up: How to Find True Love)
Recently,
a friend of mine met a lady at a shopping mall and they both got talking! Within a short
while, they started dating but something happened along the line: the lady
actually thought the guy in question was rich to an extent but she was
disappointed when she started making her endless demands and the guy couldn’t
meet up with them! She got irritated and quit the guy! I have been opportune to discuss
personally with so many ladies here in this country and most of them personally told me
that if a man does not have much cash, they will hardly consider going into
relationship with the guy! (read up: First Time Date Tips for Ladies)
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| Never easy dating a Nigerian girl at all |
Actually,
I don’t blame the ladies here! In Nigeria, guys are struggling so hard to settle
down. These ladies are from families and they have brothers and families who
are struggling financially. Remember, so many ladies over here are not industrious
thus, rely heavily on finance that comes in from someone and this ‘someone’ in
most cases happens to be a ‘rich man’ but funny enough, rich men are far too few over here.
So, if
you are dating a girl in Nigeria and you’re not financially balanced then, be
assured that you are probably going to be disrespected and several things will
be denied of you by your girlfriend. Remember, so many men in Nigeria are
struggling financially!
- Nigerian ladies are highly materialistic
Over
here, so many ladies are becoming too materialistic! This is why material
things such as phones, tablets, laptops, shoes, clothes, houses, cars, make-up
kits etc sell very well over here. Dating a lady over here and you don’t have
cash can be frustrating and remember that so many ladies over here are not industrious
so, your girl friend relies on you for almost everything financial! A typical
Nigerian lady buys a product without knowing the usefulness and features of the
product. Nigerian ladies buy products for the sake of societal status!
- Nigerian ladies love marriage
So many
Nigerian ladies think about marriage more than anything. It is quite a good
thing considering the importance of marriage in our society today but marriage
is like everything for the average Nigerian lady! It becomes one of the leading determinant for a lady who is to go into long term relationship with a guy! In this
part of the world, relationship with your mate is nothing to write home about.
Many ladies end up marrying/getting committed to men who are already established
(the funny thing is that these type of men are very few within our society).
The thought of marriage has made many Nigerian ladies to frustrate their
partners. They just want to rush you into marriage. Considering the nature of
typical men, settling down is a very big headache but the Nigerian lady thinks
of marriage much more than any other thing she thinks of each day! (Read up: the type of men you should never date)
- Wedding ceremonies are very expensive over here
While dating
a Nigerian lady remember that it may lead to marriage, may be by mistake! As a
result of this, so many men have been frustrated with the expensive nature of
marriage ceremonies in Nigeria! Normally, people spend so much preparing for
wedding over here. In Nigeria, we have the Traditional Marriage ceremony and
the White Wedding (aka Church wedding) and finally the Wedding Reception
ceremony! The Traditional marriage is very expensive, the White wedding is
kinda expensive and the Wedding Reception is far expensive. All these makes it very difficult for the average man in Nigeria to successfully date a typical Nigerian lady.
Well, I
must admit that these do not apply to every girl in Nigeria! There are some
ladies who are not that difficult to date the only problem here is that there
are so many of girls here who are very difficult to date! What do you think of this article? I Really
will love to read your own comments about this topic. Kindly LIKKE, share and
comment on this article.
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